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struggling to stay afloat whilst awaiting divorce settlement
mr_affable
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Can anyone help?
A close friend is awaiting the final hearing of the financial resolution of her divorce. In the meantime she is struggling to pay her day to day bills and service historic debt (joint). Luckily she is living in the house she inherited from her late mother. Her daughter (17) and son (24) live with her.
Her ex husband is still living in the ex matrimonial home but has been told by the judge he will have to sell and move to a smaller property and the remaining sale proceeds be split between them. The property is worth approx £300k with o/s mtge of £110k. Property and mortgage in joint names.
I have suggested that my friend could take out a small mtge (say £20k) on her inherited property in the meantime to keep her going until matters settled. However I am not sure whether this would be possible in view of her name being on the matrimonial home mortgage (ex husband is paying this at the moment).
Any advice or suggestions would be gratefully received.
Thank you
A close friend is awaiting the final hearing of the financial resolution of her divorce. In the meantime she is struggling to pay her day to day bills and service historic debt (joint). Luckily she is living in the house she inherited from her late mother. Her daughter (17) and son (24) live with her.
Her ex husband is still living in the ex matrimonial home but has been told by the judge he will have to sell and move to a smaller property and the remaining sale proceeds be split between them. The property is worth approx £300k with o/s mtge of £110k. Property and mortgage in joint names.
I have suggested that my friend could take out a small mtge (say £20k) on her inherited property in the meantime to keep her going until matters settled. However I am not sure whether this would be possible in view of her name being on the matrimonial home mortgage (ex husband is paying this at the moment).
Any advice or suggestions would be gratefully received.
Thank you
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unfortunatly i cant help with specific advice at at the moment, how a couple of question to clarify the situation
the children, (or at least the 24 year old) do they contribute to the household costs?if not this really should be something to approach as at 24 he should be putting in some money to the expenses
if the debt is joint, then this should also be his responsibility, or has there been a deal made where he pays the old mortgage and she pays the other debts? if so is this actually fair? ie does she have to pay more each month than he does?
something else which could help is if you can post her SOA on here to see if we can spot any places to make changes to save some money in the mean timeDrop a brand challenge
on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)0 -
I would post up an SOA and see where she can save money.
I would be against taking on credit for the reason that if she cannot afford her current lifestyle a loan will just cause her to spiral into debt.
SOA - http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=107280
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Thanks for your comments. I think the point I was trying to make is - is it possible for her to take out a mortgage on her inherited property (which she can hopefully clear once she gets her divorce settlement) while she still has her name on the matrimonial home (and on the mortgage for that property).
Maybe I should post my original question on a different forum ?0 -
If the mortgage/property is in joint names as above, i believe to add more secured debt to it you need permission from the other holder. So unless they agree this might not be possible.
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What I was thinking was that she could take out a small mortgage on her inherited property (which is presently mortgage free and in her sole name) but would the fact that she is still on the mortgage of her ex matrimonial property be a problem ?0
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You can have more than 1 mortgage, nothing stopping that.
The only issues are going to be if her income is low, by taking a 2nd mortgage (equity release) you now have another monthly payment + interest. Sure you have a lump sum in the short term.
Getting a 2nd mortgage also depends on her credit report and income.
A 0% credit card might be an idea, so long as see will pay it all off before the 0% term expires.Although no trees were harmed during the creation of this post, a large number of electrons were greatly inconvenienced.
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