Been nice knowing you.....

DarkConvict

Hi Jamie, you need to make the decision that you are most happy with. I have noticed over the last week alot of useful activity from yourself, reminded me of myself only a few months ago where i popped up out of the blue.

I've been lucky and had no trouble from these forums, some minor disagreements on the public forums but this is a place for open debate. I understand how some members can get on your nerves, take it from experience in moderating EA Games.

Take the good with the bad, and make your decision on that. I hope you decide to stay.

JamieT1977

will think it through, would be good be share my knowledge/learn more.
Guess its what you get from hiding behind a name on here, people do not know your background, jobs etc. Yet because you stand up for your comments, people think you are making things up.

Oneday77

Jamie it is good advice you dish out don't let morons push you away from possibly helping people in need.
You really need to report these people for the bullies they are.
1) Their emails are recorded so if they change their name mods can still ban that account.
2) If your getting bullied and have the strength to see past it but leave, what is it doing if the same bullies pick on people who are on the brink.
3) I guess your born the same year as me, don't you dare scarper away

DFW is a help board with no judgement allowed if people think they can PM their way to ignorance they have another thing coming. Feel free to PM me if you want a sounding board but don't think the public forum is safe to say it on.

Ostinato

Well jamie you really helped me today so I can say from experience you are definitely a brill contributor to this forum unlike those idiots, so dont let them beat u

niloc01

Dont let the Lunatics take over the Asylum

louise3965

*wakes up and goes for a nosy*

richardvc

Jamie - why don't YOU change your name on here ? Then those who have harrassed you cannot find you.

I hadn't posted on here for ages until this last week and I have noticed that the boards have very definitely changed in atmosphere.

When I first started lurking (long before I joined) on the boards everyone was very friendly and helpful but now there is a lot more aggression and online posturing by posters who just want an argument.

Shame really, it's starting to go the way of other forums I have previously been on.

talana

property.advert wrote: »

Don't forget to close the door on your way out.

Attention seekers do this on all boards. Those who really want to leave just stop posting.

Get a life.

Are you always this much of a moron, or are you making a special effort just for us? I can see very much where Jamie's coming from, it's a real shame to want to leave a great forum but when the idiots start taking over..........

My regards to all the helpful, friendly, pleasant, knowledgeable MSE'ers out there, but I think this is the last you'll hear from me too.

I'm outta here!

Welshdebtor

property.advert wrote: »

Don't forget to close the door on your way out.

Attention seekers do this on all boards. Those who really want to leave just stop posting.

Get a life.

Been "lurking" for years on this site, but felt I had to register to say what a stupid thing to say. No wonder this site has lost such a lot of good people. Shame on you.... and just to use your comment, untrue comment may I add.
"Attention seekers do this on all boards. Those who really want to leave just stop posting."

Ungrateful bullies dothings like the above quote from yourself.

Some people on this site are really down, and come on here for advice from others in the same shoes, or others who have been there, done that. When people like yourself and whoever caused his upset, cause people to leave, people like myself who has been down the suicidal route etc, lose the support we need. The last thing we need is a return to those feelings we put behind us.

From a few of JamieT1977's posts I have seen, and from a comment or two above he passed on usual information.

Not sure what posts etc the banter refers to, but it seems JamieT1977 took it in good spirits from your comments, but just remember the following:

What are bullying and harassment?
These terms are used interchangeably by most people, and many definitions include bullying as a form of harassment. Harassment, in general terms is unwanted conduct affecting the dignity of men and women in the workplace. It may be related to age, sex, race, disability, religion, sexual orientation, nationality or any personal characteristic of the individual, and may be persistent or an isolated incident. The key is that the actions or comments are viewed as demeaning and unacceptable to the recipient. (So even if you mean your comments in jest, as banter or whatever, if the receiver sees it as unacceptable, then it is unacceptable.)
Bullying may be characterised as offensive, intimidating, malicious or insulting behaviour, an abuse or misuse of power through means intended to undermine, humiliate, denigrate or injure the recipient. Bullying or harassment may be by an individual against an individual (perhaps by someone in a position of authority such as a manager or supervisor) or involve groups of people. It may be obvious or it may be insidious. Whatever form it takes, it is unwarranted and unwelcome to the individual.


Rant over

karren

There are some true nutters on here lately, head high and ignore them, the majority on here are fab, and i always get advise on here, i use that together with common sense to make my mind up, and juggle the money to have a nice life but ensure that the bills etc are paid and I get the best value for money, Im not perfect and dont think anyone is, or if they claim to be they have huge huge ego's and in todays day and age there are people with little support or family so long live mse, and if you are a saddo who wants to put negative feedback after my post, GET A LIFE!