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purplecatlover

hails it will teach him alesson....2 kids being sick in the car on a longish trip....serves him right for being an inconsiderate !!!! and not letting them recover. it will make a wonderful iompression on the new family for him.

Mrsd_2

melspur

you could always go and stay with a friend or family member tonight hails, so he gets to your house tomorrow and nobody is there

easter65

hails84 wrote: »

He just turned up with his mum shouting on the doorstop, he wants to take the kids (2 and 10m) on a 4hr car trip to meet new family tomo, which i agreed to, yet the eldest is still peeky after being really sick yesterday, and our 10m old is being really sick today so have said definate no to youngest going but said if 2yr old ok tomo he can go...he's said he's comign in the morning and taking both, end of. Sat here in tears, probably doesn't sound much compared to what others have to deal with but if he put his kids before his ego...??! I don't know what to do tomorrow!!

Anywayyyyyyyy! Easter i think you should do another naked run, could do with a giggle lol! X

What a Git.......Dont get upset hun....God I wish I was there with you for abit of Backup.....Blimey he cant take children on a trip that far If they are ill.......Dont answer the door tomorrow what can he do?....If anyone did that with my kids I would Rip their heads off I tell ya.....

Sorry can you tell i get abit over protective over kids:o.....Hun say you rang a Health Visitor or something or doctor and on their advice they shouldnt travel........Failing that say Easter's coming round....:eek:

hails84

Haha, thanks guys, he always makes me feel like i'm in the wrong and being completely controlling, yet usually it's him wanting to change days/times/letting me down etc and I just put up with it!!

PCL I would love to do that but it's not fair on the kids being made to travel for that long and have such a busy day when they're ill He thinks i'm doing it to spite him as we've had issues over him not paying maintenance but would never use my kids like that-the csa will deal with the money side!

Actually quite worried about tomorrow now, have said son can go though i'm still not happy about it, just don't know what he'd do to take youngest grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! X

easter65

hails84 wrote: »

Haha, thanks guys, he always makes me feel like i'm in the wrong and being completely controlling, yet usually it's him wanting to change days/times/letting me down etc and I just put up with it!!

PCL I would love to do that but it's not fair on the kids being made to travel for that long and have such a busy day when they're ill He thinks i'm doing it to spite him as we've had issues over him not paying maintenance but would never use my kids like that-the csa will deal with the money side!

Actually quite worried about tomorrow now, have said son can go though i'm still not happy about it, just don't know what he'd do to take youngest grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! X

Hun if you are in any Doubt as to their health say NO.....that makes you a caring mom nothing else......They are too young not to take that into consideration.. And as for him keep changing times and days you need to talk that over with him...Children need Stability not being messed about by him....You are totally in the right here...I think you just need a confidence boost....Stand by what you feel......:D

purplecatlover

sorry hails i shudd abeen clearer....i know its not fair ont he kids..and i would hope when he sees that they are that ill he accepts that. goode luck with sorting it out.

toomanykids

hails84 wrote: »

Haha, thanks guys, he always makes me feel like i'm in the wrong and being completely controlling, yet usually it's him wanting to change days/times/letting me down etc and I just put up with it!!

PCL I would love to do that but it's not fair on the kids being made to travel for that long and have such a busy day when they're ill He thinks i'm doing it to spite him as we've had issues over him not paying maintenance but would never use my kids like that-the csa will deal with the money side!

Actually quite worried about tomorrow now, have said son can go though i'm still not happy about it, just don't know what he'd do to take youngest grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! X

hunni - that's not on, under no circumstances :(:( I'd put him in the picture, very clearly, by phone today, the kids aren't going, end of. And couldn't you have someone there to support you tomorrow in case he still fancies coming round. He can't bully and intimidate you where the kids are concerned. Tell him to back off. Have you got anyone that could have a word, his dad or brother or someone?

hails84

I know PCL and if it were anyone else's children I wouldn't have got them in his car fast enough!! lol He know's they're ill but just wants them for selfish reasons.
Will just keep youngest asleep tomo and refuse him in and just let him take our eldest!

Sorry to go on, you're all soooo nice!

Mrsd I only just saw your smiley in action...naughty!!! lol

Right, lets have some wins, a nice holiday/car/money win would do wonders for my mood X


I know tmk...all my family are working though and his mum came round with him to try convince me though she hardly said anything at all, there's no-one that can talk any sense into him, he's so so selfish-such a shame it took me almost 8 years to realise it!!!!!!!!!!

suedong

My son only get to see his 18m old son 1 hour each week at the ball park and no other contact for the rest of the family, so life is never very easy when children are involved eventhough he pays more than the CSA say and never made a late payment! The last time I saw him he was 3m old