Trying for a Baby part 5....

BigSister2008

Afternoon all

Not good today at all with my asthma and they now have me on brown inhaler 8 puffs a day :O

Do you ever get the feeling in the last month of trying properly everything is trying to tell you its a bad idea

CD24 here not much to report - did do a sneaky test but BFN and i know its too early but something made me just try it

Teenie_D

Afternoon ladies!

Goodness me where is everyone today!?

CD 24 here and I am very slowly losing my PMA and chilled out mood that I have had over the past couple of weeks. Its my DD's 3rd birthday today which is really exciting but of course I am now getting "when's your next one coming along" feel like a bit of a failure

My friend in work is pregnant and I am totally delighted for her as it hs taken her a long time to fall pregnant (3 and a bit years) after her ectopic pregnancy and in all honestly I'm excited to be talking about her baby and scans and baby things because I know how hard it has been for her but little things like today she was speaking to her mum on the phone and her Mum was saying she has bought some babygros and vests and what a tug at my heart I had

Anyway I really don't want to go another cycle without knowing exactly when I'm ovulating, would love a CBFM but at the mo its a bit pricey so think I will start off with the sticks. I am a complete novice to these so how does it work and how many will I need?

Hope everyone is ok, at least it is near the weekend.

Take care all and SBD xx

Teenie_D

Hey bigsis we're cycle buddies. Sorry for the BFN but it is a wee bit early. Ok I'll own up I tested today too which was really stupid......but my reasoning behind it was that it would be nice to have a bfp on my DD's birthday If it wasn't for that I wouldn't have bothered and I don't intend testing again promise:D

ddebski_us

Teenie_D wrote: »

Afternoon ladies!

Goodness me where is everyone today!?

CD 24 here and I am very slowly losing my PMA and chilled out mood that I have had over the past couple of weeks. Its my DD's 3rd birthday today which is really exciting but of course I am now getting "when's your next one coming along" feel like a bit of a failure

My friend in work is pregnant and I am totally delighted for her as it hs taken her a long time to fall pregnant (3 and a bit years) after her ectopic pregnancy and in all honestly I'm excited to be talking about her baby and scans and baby things because I know how hard it has been for her but little things like today she was speaking to her mum on the phone and her Mum was saying she has bought some babygros and vests and what a tug at my heart I had

Anyway I really don't want to go another cycle without knowing exactly when I'm ovulating, would love a CBFM but at the mo its a bit pricey so think I will start off with the sticks. I am a complete novice to these so how does it work and how many will I need?

Hope everyone is ok, at least it is near the weekend.

Take care all and SBD xx

Hey Teenie - it is quiet on here isn't it!!

Don't lose you PMA - now is the time you need to hang onto it!!

Do you chart your temps at all? A thermometer is the cheapest tool you can buy and charting CM through the month is also a good way of detecting when you are/about to OV?

I'm glad for your friend at work, 3.5 years is a long time but I understand you're feeling down too. Chin up sweetie.

xDx

Teenie_D

Thanks hun x

No don't chart or anything, I thought I knew when I ovulated as I get quite bad ovulation pains. This is why I thought I would "fall" quite soon. Personally I think the problem is we are not BD'ing enough? We are obviously missing the right time. Do you chart temps?
Actually am I the only one on here who doesn't use anything?

Will look into the charting my temp then and see how I get on with that.

Better get back to doing some work i suppose, my tray in overflowing after my hol but just can't get into it (work that is not the tray ).

whowants2brich

Hi all,

Just to let you know, I have some good news for you all, and some bad news for you all...

First, I suppose, has to be the bad news. My wife's booked in for a D&C next Monday, so that shall be a bundle of laughs for us... not! Hopefully it will help us to close the book on MC#1, and allow us to start all over again...

The good news is that hopefully a "few" weeks later, things will settle down and we can rejoin the TTC club, and see how long it will take us to have another MC... erm, I mean, find a sticky bean...!

Take care, keep up the PMA and all that... and for today's song, in case nobody's suggested anything, given the way things have gone in the past few weeks... (and sorry about the singers, they weren't that great, I know)

Say you will say you won't (my comment: have a baby, that is)
Say you'll do what I don't (my comment: I say you'll be fine, she says she'll MC)
Say you're true, say to me c'est la vie (my comment: certainly is a case of c'est la vie, this whole baby making thing!!!)

(and for those who are in the process of DTD, go back to the chorus )

Gotta let me in, hey, hey, hey
Let the fun begin hey
I'm the wolf today hey, hey, hey
I'll huff I'll puff
I'll huff I'll puff and blow you away

cleomolly

loving the song choice WW2B. I'm sorry to hear about your news but am liking your posetive attitude towards TTC in the future. Your wife must really appreciate your uplifting thoughts and comfort. I wish you both all the luck for future and hope everything goes as well as it can Monday.

TeenieD - it's hard when people keep falling pregnant aorund you but your posetiveness towards your work mate is lovely and I bet she feels great having you around to discuss things with her Happy Birthday to your DD too

I try to think posetively when people/friends ect fall pregnant aorund me by thinking when they have had their baby and back from maternity leave ect I'll have it all to come and waiting longer for it to happen means I've still got it all to look forward too.

Wishing everyone a lovely weekend, I'm off camping tonight so won't be around till Monday. Hoping I son't ov over the weekend as can't see us getting much BD'ing in and I can't rely on my temps so much when sleeping in a cold field!!

Enjoy yourselfs ladies and catch up next week

QQuaver

BigSister2008 sorry about your asthma and BFN (too early), hang in there:o

Teenie D hugs to you too, but remember you already have a baby and done all the things your friend is doing;)

whowants2brich sorry to hear about your mc, hugs (((Mr & Mrs WW2BR))).
I heard one is super fertile after mc, so fingers crossed you'll get a sticky one very soon:)

QQuaver

Have a great time cleomolly:wave:

Teenie_D

QQuaver wrote: »

Teenie D hugs to you too, but remember you already have a baby and done all the things your friend is doing;)

Yep I do doesn't make the longing for another one any less though (and this will be her 2nd baby so she has done it all before too:p)