Trying for a Baby part 5....

LoopyLinz

Hi girlies

Well I havent really been posting much but have been reading. Today I am feeling pretty . I feel a rant coming on so I am going to apologise in advance!!

I have my stupid stupid period yet again! How am I ever supposed to get pg if stupid witchy af wont leave me alone for longer than a week at a time. Quick backround is that I suffer from Rheumatoid Arthritis I was diagnosed 18 months ago and at the time we were TTC but decided we would give it 1 year with treatment and then try again. Fast forward 18 months and I have had 6 months of no meds, I feel horrible and appear to have my period for the second time in 3 weeks!! I am so fed up with my usess body!

Today we were in church and my heart completely broke for my hubby. They showed a video clip of a father and son and I could see it was eating him up inside. I feel like my stupid body and all the things it cant to controls our lives!!

Sorry for the rant girls.........I really am. Hope you all have had a better day than I have!!

Linz xox

fantafan

Big ((((((hugs)))))))) Linz. I didn't go to mass today but I was going to - haven't been since Easter oops and am away for the next 2 weekends. Might try and go at work as we have a chapel and they do a service one lunch.

I've been for a BBQ at mum and dads for fathers day - did cycle earlier to give him his pressie and he was pleased with it and I got 14 miles of exercise to boot so everyones a winner!

I'm feeling meh too but that's coz DH is about to go away for 2 nights again so no nookie and it's coming up to high time. I wonder if I can persuade him tonight or tomorrow morning???

BigSister2008

Evening all

AF still not properly here - infact none existant since the minor bleeding a day or 2 ago

Still feel really rotten but im hoping thats due to stopping the anti depressants 6 weeks ago??

SBDTA for tomorrow. I should be testing on wednesday but might wait a day or two

Doglover

LoopyLinz wrote: »

Hi girlies

Well I havent really been posting much but have been reading. Today I am feeling pretty . I feel a rant coming on so I am going to apologise in advance!!

Sorry for the rant girls.........I really am. Hope you all have had a better day than I have!!

Linz xox

Hugs Linz, I hope today is a better day for you. x

fantafan wrote: »

I've been for a BBQ at mum and dads for fathers day - did cycle earlier to give him his pressie and he was pleased with it and I got 14 miles of exercise to boot so everyones a winner!

I'm feeling meh too but that's coz DH is about to go away for 2 nights again so no nookie and it's coming up to high time. I wonder if I can persuade him tonight or tomorrow morning???

Wow Fanta all that cycling! Go you. I hope you managed to squeeze that BD in. 2 nights to yourself, perhaps you should spend some time giving yourself a bit of pamper - long hot soak, nails etc (if that's your bag). I always more positive if I'm looking and feeling nice (shallow aren't I?!) then I'm double ready for the big pounce as soon as DH walks in!

My DH works at least 2 night shifts a week but this week 3. Annoyingly those shifts are at the prime BD time :(however I'm sure you all said before about sperm living for 5 days (correct me if I'm wrong please) so I'm working on the basis on BD before and after and it shouldn't totally obliterate our chances??

BigSister2008 wrote: »

Evening all

AF still not properly here - infact none existant since the minor bleeding a day or 2 ago. Still feel really rotten but im hoping thats due to stopping the anti depressants 6 weeks ago??

SBDTA for tomorrow. I should be testing on wednesday but might wait a day or two

Hey Bigsis - that mini bleed could be a good sign couldn't it? I'm not really up on all the info but I'm sure a clever one will come along shortly. Isn't it poss for implantation? Would it be the right time for that?

QQ I hope you've adjusted to the weather now and enjoying home a bit more.

EA sorry about your OPK. Good luck with today's test.

I managed to get on top of most of my paperwork at home (yay, finally!) so I do feel better for it. I'm planning on trying to blitz a room of housework each night this week. We'll see how I get on but the intention is there .

I hope you all have a good day. SBDTA xx

Doglover

madbird wrote: »

Hello,

Feeling bit down today, CD14 and still high, don't think I'll get a peak. Plus I'm missing my dad on fathers day, he died 4 years ago:(. OH said may be this time next year he'll be a father...

I'm still feeling tired and rough, seeing my consultant on Wednesday so will mention.

Doglover, good luck with OH tonight:cool:

xx

Hi mad bird, I'm really sorry about your dad. It's sad you're feeling down but nice that you were obviously close enough to still feel it each year. My dad is alive but wants nothing to do with me (the feeling is mutual). He's an odd one so we're better off without him and my mum makes up for it by being a total legend of a mum .

Sorry you're still feeling so carp, defo mention it to the quack on Wednesday. I do hope you're feeling better today .

A successful pounce on DH yesterday thanks! In fact he was the pouncer :T. That's a plus to him working shifts, he's always more than ready when he finishes .

phunkles wrote: »

marks and spencers do a gorgeous choc cheesecake nomnom

havent got much to say really - nothing happening here much just work work and more work and the dramas that come from work
meh - oh is super busy today with work and his family so just on me own debating going and making cakes or eating choc or something

Hi Phunkles, M & S do gorgeous everything!

The rest of your quote sounds how I've been feeling recently (apart from the domestic goddess bit about making cakes ).

A new week ahead now so hopefull things will pick up and the chocolate will be safe for a while .

Have a good week ladies and BIG good luck vibes for those testing.

xx

ps EA let us know when your house is a total done deal after your work have sorted the last reference. x

dustystar02

Morning ladies,

Hope it is as bright and sunny where you are as it is in Manchester today.

CD8 for me and still no POAS from CBFM.
i've decided not to reset it now as
a) I don't want to ba11s it up and
b) AF still has one foot in the door so ov isn't happening any time soon here

((HUGS)) Linz and Madbird..

Well done on the exercise Fanta. We go to Spain early August and operations get trim starts today, well after I've eaten last nights left over chinese for lunch today! :rotfl:

gratefulforhelp_2

Hugs, Linz and phunkles what is meh???

CD9 and HIGH. Waiting to see if govt going to cut maternity leave benefits, since they clearly think all women should be chained to the kitchen sink. Huh! If I could afford it I would be!!

Penny35_2

Hi All

Not posted for a bit sorry such a busy week. Will read back all your posts later..

Had a weird moment last night, my lovely husband said have you thought you may be pregnant at which I laughed and apparently I had 'moaned' the last few things of things that he had noticed when I got my first BFP in December.

I felt so bad for him as I am sure I cant be as for some reason my last AF lasted 3 weeks, I saw my doctor and she thinks it is still my body/hormones getting back to normal since the mc so I would think OV probably has not happened this month, plus becuase it lasted 3 weeks I dont know when my next AF is due, if it had lasted normal time I would of already had it but the length must of affected it for this month, so just waiting for it to appear.

Will be glad when my body gets back to normal.

Have a lovely day everyone.

gratefulforhelp_2

It took me a couple of months to get back to normal after m/c, which is very frustrating.

Penny35_2

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

It took me a couple of months to get back to normal after m/c, which is very frustrating.

My mc was Jan so its feels like forever at moment !!