Trying for a Baby part 5....

smartie12

*pops back quickly*

PLEASE PLEASE girlies do not test early;) I know it's easier said than done but you may get a TLP then AF shows and you'll be heartbroken I've been there so I know (although I didn't test early on purpose - my cycle was crazy)

Newbies... AF symptoms are the same as PG symptoms (evil mother nature:mad:) so don't get too excited. AF can be late for many reasons as well.

It can take MONTHS and MONTHS of TTC before you get BFP (I know;)) so don't start panicing about involving doctor. Chill!:cool:

GOOD LUCK AND LOTS OF BABY DUST xxx

Oh and I only popped by to stalk FUZZ... where are you???:mad::p

pukkamum

Well 2 days til AF due really trying to stop convincing myself i am pg now hoping a bit of reverse physchology will work and tellling myself def NOT pg!!!!
AAAArrrgh only first month ttc and already feeling bit stressed about it i should know better being third time around!!!!!!

Primmer

Smartie - thanks for your wise words, so diificult not to get excited at slightest symptom and test early - willpower to wait until after af due is needed in huuuuge amounts !!!

QQuaver

smartie12 wrote: »

PLEASE PLEASE girlies do not test early;) I know it's easier said than done but you may get a TLP then AF shows and you'll be heartbroken I've been there so I know (although I didn't test early on purpose - my cycle was crazy)

Do you suggest we do a Smartie?:D

It can take MONTHS and MONTHS of TTC before you get BFP (I know;)) so don't start panicking about involving doctor. Chill!:cool:

:A

Oh and I only popped by to stalk FUZZ... where are you???:mad::p

She's off work for a week:o

MERFE

QQuaver wrote: »

It was supposed to be tomorrow, but I've tested today for some reason (BFN, not even a hint), so I've decided to hold out till Sat:o

Now how did you manage that - I thought you used up your last test tutut! I know I'd be exactly the same.

Smartie I know you are right but ..... I'd just have to know. However completely agree that it can take months even years but there may be nothing wrong, its just not as easy as drunk 18 year olds seem to make it seem. does that even make sense, oh I know what I mean.

lolly1981

i know what ya mean....all these teens going...oh it was my first time...oh i thought pulling out meant i wouldnt get preg etc etc
it will make it all worth it in the ned..the TTC!

does anyone know any good suppliers of cheap opk...im so irregular in my cyscles that i would like to have some idea if and when im actully OVing

Lizzieb151

Oh ok then Qquaver you have convinced me, if nothings happens by the time I leave work then I will go and get one and try for tonight :eek:

Congrats again. Another one on the list how lovely

Will let you know later

QQuaver

Lizzieb151 wrote: »

Oh ok then Qquaver you have convinced me, if nothings happens by the time I leave work then I will go and get one and try for tonight :eek:

Well Smartie has come in, and said one should not test too early:o

So I don't know. I'm not an expert in these things, I've only been ttc for couple of cycles...

ladylegs

Hello peeps,

QQuaver wrote: »

:rotfl:

What a lovely idea, do let us know what you got:)

I'm not a green-fingered expert but I got a Hebe "blue clouds" - it'll flower in late summer when bean would have been due. Wikipedia tells me Hebe is greek for youth, which is quite poignant:)

Murray wrote: »

You've been gone quite a long time now Legs, those twins must be real goers!

I can barely walk now - red raw:D I'll send them over.;)

smartie12 wrote: »

It can take MONTHS and MONTHS of TTC before you get BFP (I know;)) so don't start panicing about involving doctor. Chill!:cool:

Yep, got to agree with the voice of experience. Anyone have the opposite problem of putting off testing?
I'm dreading the BFN. I got pg 1st time and lost bean so think my luck on getting a bfp quickly again is pretty slim. I'll be here next month no doubt and I'm being patient for a year and only then will I start throwing a fit - for the interests of the forum, you better pray I leave this thread before I get crabby and jaded by it all :rotfl:

Sammy_Girl

Afternoon Ladies,

Oooohh Quaver, how exciting! Hope AF stays away and you get your BFP :j

Good luck to Lizzie too, and anyone else with an imminent BFP/AF (obv we're hoping for the former )

CD10 for me, and on my second fertile day (according to FF). Not sure if I'll get a BD in today, as DH worked very late last night and is rather tired. But I will definitely be getting some BD action in Thu/Fri/Sat/Sun this week. Who had the shag rag?? I need to get me one of those. Might have to raid the dog's bed for an old crusty towel. Best wash it first though eh?

I'm feeling very positive this month - I just hope I get what I want

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x