Trying for a Baby part 5....

Penny35_2

Hi All

Welcome to all the newbies.

Pets I have a lovely staffordshire bull terrier pup and 6 ponies !!!

My update for the day I am still bleeding and cramping I have been bleeding for over 5 weeks now, the longer this mc goes on for the more inclined I am to think we may not try again !!!

On a very happy note I got my nails inc voucher today with a lovely card and message, thank you so much Katy it is very much appreciated.

Whoever asked about nursery, well err...mine is done and furnished as soon as we got our BFP we done it !!! It looks lovely though, cream walls, winnie the pooh border, and all bedding, curtains etc..are my little bear..yes I am mad...The whole room is very me and not at all MSE..

Hope your all having a good day.

miss.bint

Can I be added too, please?

miss.bint
28
TTC # 2
TTC since 09/09


Thank you!

stef240377

Penny is it time to ask for Dnc now to stop all this prolonged mental pain for you? Im sure it would help you change your mind towards ttc after wards. Whatever you decide you know there are plenty of us around to listen to you and lend a shoulder even if its a virtual one.

gettingthereslowly

New thread and already on PAGE 5!!!!!!!! You lot are loving talking :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

No chance can I catch up with everything so:

Hello Newbies :wave:

Congrats BFP's :j

BIG HUGS if you want one :grouphug: (esp Penny and Jacobsmum)

PMA - To all xxxxx

I've decided that I want you all to have BFPs this month and leave me in peace for March :rotfl::rotfl::D;) Easier to catch up on the thread then (seriously hope for lots the next few months for us all)

I know i'm out for this month but not bothered what so ever (until the witch comes then i'll sulk for a bit lol:cool:)

Going now to pretend to work (afternoons boo!)

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxxxx

ladylegs

Hi Penny, I was just going to reiterate what Stef posted. Maybe there is some stubborn tissue and you do require medical intervention on this occasion. I honestly can't blame you for wanting to stop trying after your awful experience but what are the chances of this ever happening again? 20%? That's an 80% likelihood things will turn out well next time.
Fear and concern are natural but not as much as our urge to be mummies. Those odds are pretty good. It is a numbers game and we were the unlucky ones but next time..who knows?:)

Risk of miscarriage
(related to past pregnancy history in the following way):

First pregnancy 5%
Last pregnancy terminated 6%
Last pregnancy a live birth 5%
All pregnancies live births 4%
1 previous miscarriage 20%
2 previous miscarriages 28%
3 previous miscarriages 43%
(source: Prof Regan study, recurrent miscarriage unit, London)

I don't suggest you jump right back in but perhaps do an Elliebobs/Becs and take some QUALITY time out to get physically and mentally ready...starting with your nail treatment. Lucky thing! (hugs)

I didn't even mention the 6 blimmin ponies!!!...I want a pony, i want a pony!

tigtag02

Hi all - thanks fuzz for the link to the new thread.

Details are 35, trying for #3 as from tomorrow!!

Well, I say tomorrow, it might be next month - I'm having my mirena out in the morning (hopefully) - part of me knows that we should wait at least one 'normal' cycle the other part wants to say what the h*ll!!

I'm bluddy obsessed already

notttmyusualname

evening lovelies
havent been around much this week been busy with work and family and stuff
still no af here *dontknow* whats going on and clearblue says bfn so no idea but it means Ill be out for Feb and March coz im not dtd in his parents house would be weird

Metranil_Vavin

Penny so sorry this has dragged on for so long. I can imagine it's competely draining both mentally and physically.

I agree with the others who have said maybe you should speak to your GP about getting te remains of the MC cleared so you can move forward again.

And I also think that you will go on to ttc again and you will have that baby that you long for. You just need to put this horrible episode behind you...please don't give up xxx

twinklie

PAGE 5!!! PAGE 5!!! :mad: How rude!!! I've been here long enough to warrant an earlier entry surely!!

CD13 - high!

stef240377

Twinklie - let me stop you there your tracks hun, you should not be worrying you pretty little head about what page you drop in to leave your mark on - you should be marking notches on that bed post so get outta here NOW :rotfl::D

You also get your own special award for being poster 100 (cheerleader seriously needed here)