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Negative feedback after NPD

Hello,
I wondered if any of you could offer me some advice. A buyer from Spain won one of my auctions a couple of weeks ago. After 4 days, he hadn't paid and hadn't contacted me so I sent him a message asking if he still wanted the item. We got into a long dialogue of whether or not he wanted it - he said he might pay in a coiple of days, then when pushed would try to pay in a couple of days and by 25th at the latest, then final message was I'd have to wait until 25th. I had doubts that he would even pay then and was advised to file a NPD which I did. Buyer paid, I sent the item the next day.
He obviously received the item today and has left me negative feedback in Spanish which I can make out to mean bad communication (even though I'd been the one to initiate all communication) and impatient.

I'm guessing there's nothing I can do about this? Just where is the protection for the seller? Especially if a NPD had to be issued just to get payment.
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  • dawyldthing
    dawyldthing Posts: 3,438 Forumite
    if you go onto google and type in translation it will help you translate what they said, but i doubt you can remove the feedback.
    :T:T :beer: :beer::beer::beer: to the lil one :) :beer::beer::beer:
  • niccatw
    niccatw Posts: 3,096 Forumite
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    I'm not sure you can remove it, but I think there's a way you can comment on it, therby puuting your side of the story, i.e. that you had to initiate a NPD.

    Have you checked his feedback? And left your own?
    Jan10: 28,315.81 Jan11: 18,015.32 Jan12: 7,682.58 Jan13: 2,987.73 Current debt: 1,225.55
    HFC [STRIKE]1896.10. [/STRIKE] 225.55 SLC2 [STRIKE]5123.34[/STRIKE] 0 Others [STRIKE]2085[/STRIKE] 1000 Bcard [STRIKE]1172.60[/STRIKE] 0

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  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 72,845 Ambassador
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    niccatw wrote: »
    I'm not sure you can remove it, but I think there's a way you can comment on it, therby puuting your side of the story, i.e. that you had to initiate a NPD.

    Have you checked his feedback? And left your own?

    Why leave such a bad buyer a positive to increase his total?
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  • martindow
    martindow Posts: 10,343 Forumite
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    Do you want to post his comment here? There are lots of us who can translate Spanish for you.
  • martindow wrote: »
    Do you want to post his comment here? There are lots of us who can translate Spanish for you.

    good idea

    i know a bit
  • niccatw
    niccatw Posts: 3,096 Forumite
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    soolin wrote: »
    Why leave such a bad buyer a positive to increase his total?

    I didn't suggest what feedback be left ;) It sounds like other people need to know that OP had to fight to get his payment - that's all he should need to say in feedback to warn others off.
    Jan10: 28,315.81 Jan11: 18,015.32 Jan12: 7,682.58 Jan13: 2,987.73 Current debt: 1,225.55
    HFC [STRIKE]1896.10. [/STRIKE] 225.55 SLC2 [STRIKE]5123.34[/STRIKE] 0 Others [STRIKE]2085[/STRIKE] 1000 Bcard [STRIKE]1172.60[/STRIKE] 0

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  • durham_girl
    durham_girl Posts: 2,715 Forumite
    niccatw wrote: »
    I didn't suggest what feedback be left ;)

    It doesn't matter. Sellers can only leave positive feedback for buyers.
    :j30/7/10:j

    :j24/1/14 :j
  • walwin
    walwin Posts: 8,713 Forumite
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    It doesn't matter. Sellers can only leave positive feedback for buyers.


    But they can reply to negative feedback left
  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 72,845 Ambassador
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    walwin wrote: »
    But they can reply to negative feedback left

    Yes they can respond, but that is not the same as leaving feedback.
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  • jabdc5
    jabdc5 Posts: 153 Forumite
    If you open a NPD and the buyer doesn't respond to Ebay's email, regardless of whether they pay you in the meantime , you can have the neg removed. I've done this twice in the past, Not responding to ebay is listed as one of the reasons a negative can be removed,
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