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Penalty shoot out in Germany.

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  • Donedoingdebt
    Donedoingdebt Posts: 1,196 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Well done for telling your OH, even if in a roundabout way. Believe me, you can hardly imagine what a relief this will be to you in the coming awkward years ahead. You'll find you will discuss, argue, get on each others' nerves & even smile occassionally about the situation you find yourself in. But at least you're now working together & hopefully no more early shifts looking out for the postman anymore! Eventually, that glimmer will appear in the tunnel & the 2 of you can share the experience of walking towards it together for however how long it takes to become daylight again. I have been where you are & my light is now bright with dawn rapidly approaching & all being well, daylight in just under 2 years. Good luck.
    Donedoingdebt Lightbulb moment January 2000. Debt at highest approx £102,000. Debt now (October 2009 - absolutely fork all!!!):beer:
    CSA case closed on 02/09/10 :beer::beer:
  • kate1976
    kate1976 Posts: 2,021 Forumite
    :T

    I remember reading the original thread, then you disappeared and I kept wondering about you! I'm so glad that you told her, now you can move on and sort things out together!

    I wish you all the very best!
    Kate
    xxx
    :Axxx
    "A bank is a place where they lend you an umbrella in fair weather
    and ask for it back when it begins to rain."

    Stay safe, stay sane, stay smiley!
  • dfw_big_al
    dfw_big_al Posts: 26 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Well done Justindebt

    I have only recently done exactly the same thing with my OH and got a very similar reaction, but glad to say like your loving family i too have full support only i can't put it into words like you did.

    Best of luck to you and you much better Half !:T

    Lightbulb Moment July 2006
    DFD - Not sure awaiting CCCs Appt 11/7/06
    Current Debt £47,000:eek:

    dfw big al
    Here we go then :mad: £35910 :eek: September 2018
  • mariemcg
    mariemcg Posts: 55 Forumite
    What an amazing writing style. Use your talent to bring in some extra dosh!

    But seriously, my heart goes out to you. Keep us updated. I look forward to reading more...

    :heartpuls CG :heartpuls

    I've just read this thread for the first time - but I agree you have an incredible gift. You should subit this to a newspaper or something
    Marie

    Credit Card (0%) finally paid off end Jan 2011 :j
    Student Loans Company £8, 850.67 :eek:
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