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fiveyearplan

I don't think we have to worry whether or not phil is looking after his missus. He spoils her and she gets nightly foot rubs.

philnicandamy

Not really....I've a few health issues some of which "could" have been passed on so we were referred to a genetics team who then referred us to a specialist FMU clinic and they've been superb with her doing things from growth scans to other bits and bobs...inculding when we had the news my OH "could" be a high risk of carrying a downs child..

She gets flowers every week...hugs every 3o mins and back & foot rubs every night before bedtime! although she's the same as your OH at the minute, she's been up unwell most of the night but after lunch she decided to start sewing bits curtains etc for the nursery to get everything finished..she's had less than 2hrs sleep & she's like a whirlwind today...god help me when she gets the "nesting" term

fiveyearplan

Tinytim wrote: »

And this is only the start of the worry Phil My nine year old had to have a general anaesthetic to have teeth removed last year, and I swear it was the most stressful hour of my life. Not a day goes by when one or the other of them doesn't do something to make me panic:rolleyes:

The other thing parenthood seems to do is trash your emotions. As a young man I could watch starving children and world disasters with impunity. Now, the NSPCC adverts give me a very large lump in my throat, and I can blub with the best of them when the Children in Need "what we have done with your money" bit comes on

Yep that general anaesthetic is the worst.:o

dorothyp

Tinytim wrote: »

The other thing parenthood seems to do is trash your emotions. As a young man I could watch starving children and world disasters with impunity. Now, the NSPCC adverts give me a very large lump in my throat, and I can blub with the best of them when the Children in Need "what we have done with your money" bit comes on

So true. It changes your outlook on life totally. I never forget a new Dad I worked with saying to me an hour after his new baby was born (we were still in the hosp) that he suddenly felt very worried about nuclear attack and also what an evil world we lived in. So sweet.

dorothyp

philnicandamy wrote: »

Not really....I've a few health issues some of which "could" have been passed on so we were referred to a genetics team who then referred us to a specialist FMU clinic and they've been superb with her doing things from growth scans to other bits and bobs...inculding when we had the news my OH "could" be a high risk of carrying a downs child..

Let us know how you get on, not suprised you are feeling a bit anxious. Don't forget your pound coins so that you can bring home some copys of the pictures for the family album :T

philnicandamy

dorothyp wrote: »

Let us know how you get on, not suprised you are feeling a bit anxious. Don't forget your pound coins so that you can bring home some copys of the pictures for the family album :T

Oh will do...people will be sick of me! (we were pretty lucky...from my NHS days I know & have worked with the consultant we're under...she gave us half a dozen 4d scans last time for free...i'm hoping its another 4d one tomorrow fingers crossed!)

dorothyp

Brilliant.. well i'm going to hobble off to bed. I hope your lovely lady gets a better night sleep tonight, tell her if it makes her feel any better i've been waking at 3am every night and then not drifting off again until 5-6ish... just in time for my 4 yr old to wake up. Good luck again for tomorrow.

philnicandamy

Thanks Dorothy...i'll let you know how we go

Nite Nite x