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I think I've had a 'lightbulb' moment!

Mrs_Arkwright
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Hello 
I've been lurking here over the last few days, which has brought on my lightbulb moment!
I sat down last night and worked out everything we owe, and to who, and had a bit of a shock to say the least. Not counting the mortgage, we owe £13861.42. I'm pretty ashamed of myself. But I'm pulling my socks up today and doing something about it. I've read some threads, and got a few ideas, and have put the debts in order so as to pay off the highest interest rate ones first. I've also made a Budget Planner to start on Saturday to account for every penny for the next few months, so I can get an idea of where the money is going and where we can cut down. I've also signed on with some temping agencies to see if I can get an extra evening job to help out for a bit.
I'm feeling a bit better about it all already!

I've been lurking here over the last few days, which has brought on my lightbulb moment!
I sat down last night and worked out everything we owe, and to who, and had a bit of a shock to say the least. Not counting the mortgage, we owe £13861.42. I'm pretty ashamed of myself. But I'm pulling my socks up today and doing something about it. I've read some threads, and got a few ideas, and have put the debts in order so as to pay off the highest interest rate ones first. I've also made a Budget Planner to start on Saturday to account for every penny for the next few months, so I can get an idea of where the money is going and where we can cut down. I've also signed on with some temping agencies to see if I can get an extra evening job to help out for a bit.
I'm feeling a bit better about it all already!
My sig's too large, apparently - so apologies to whoever's space I was taking up.:lipsrseal
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Welcome Mrs Arkwright! Don't feel ashamed- there are plenty of us here in the same boat and no one here will judge you or make you feel bad. You might find it helpful to post an SOA so people can have a look and try to point out ways of cutting down.
Well done for making the first, brave step.Debt at highest May 2006: £27,472.24
currently: £13,353.25DFW Nerd 178Proud to be dealing with my debts0 -
Hi Mrs Arkwright & welcome to DFW :T
Stick around and you'll get loads of help and advice :beer:Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
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Welcome!
Do have a go at an SOA and we'll do what we can
Sea xxCCCS DMP:Feb 07
Total:£37,016.47 now £0 DEBT FREE FEB 14
2022 Decluttering Campaign 49/10110 -
Hello and thanks everyone :-)
Right, I'll have a go at an SOA - I'll be right back!My sig's too large, apparently - so apologies to whoever's space I was taking up.:lipsrseal0 -
:hello: hello and welcome!!!! As has been said, if you post your SOA you'll get some great help. xA positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
Mortgage Balance = £0
"Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"0 -
Ok
Monthly Income - 1704
Mortage - 400 differs monthly but 400 max
Shopping - 400
Petrol - 40
House insurance - 20.55
Egg loan - 155.05 Int rate 10.4%
Council tax - 92.00
MBNA card - 5.00 Balance 141 Int rate 13.9%
Mobile phone - 5.00 Max - I hardly use my mobile, it's on PAYG
Catalogue - 35 Balance 87 so that will be paid off in a couple of months
Car insurance - 24.14
Savings plan - 40.00
Telewest bundle - 50.00
MBNA loan - 140.96 Int rate 6.9%
Burtons storecard - 6 Balance 103
Electric - 57.00
Gas - 14.00
Additions store account - 100.00 Balance 190 so will be paid off soon
Egg card - 50.00 Int rate 15.9%
Life insurance - 31.79
Water - 18.78
TV licence - 11.07
Amex card - 95 Balance 3155 Int rate 0.40%
Abbey card - 7 Balance 283.03 Int rate 0%
I hope this is enough information!My sig's too large, apparently - so apologies to whoever's space I was taking up.:lipsrseal0 -
hi there
welcome to MSE
your electric seems quite high, are you sure you're on the best plan. try https://www.uswitch.com they might be able to get you a better rate.
what's the shopping at £400? is that for food? how many people are you shopping for?
all in all, you've got a good plan going so i'm sure you'll be debt free in no time.
all the best.MFW Newbie - #17. (#116 in 2019)
New Mortgage at Nov 19 - £273 499
Current Balance - £268 225
Want to cut down 26 year mortgage by 9 years!
New MF date 2036 :dance:0 -
Hello Melabarrie
My electric is high as I'm paying off arrears - our gas central heating broke so we were heating the house with electric - for four years! That inevitably sent the bill sky high, but they (and I) didn't do anything about upping the monthly payment until my arrears had got massive, hence why I'm paying now.
Shopping is food/groceries for four people. I usually shop in Tesco's, however my local is undergoing refurbishment at the mo and I'm peed off with never being able to find the eggs, so I'm defecting to Asda - this will probably save a few pennies.My sig's too large, apparently - so apologies to whoever's space I was taking up.:lipsrseal0 -
i'm sure it will.
why not visit the old style board for a few tips on how to bring that food bill down even lower. i'm sure you can. i'm currently feeding 2 on about £140 a month, so you could probably feed four for twice that.
have you budgeted for one time expenses like christmas, birthdays, holidays etc.?MFW Newbie - #17. (#116 in 2019)
New Mortgage at Nov 19 - £273 499
Current Balance - £268 225
Want to cut down 26 year mortgage by 9 years!
New MF date 2036 :dance:0 -
Mrs_Arkwright wrote:Ok
Monthly Income - 1704
Mortage - 400 differs monthly but 400 max Why???? Weekly payments?????
Shopping - 400 How many is this for, check out money saving old style, unless you are the old woman who lives in a shoe this si way too high!!!
Petrol - 40
House insurance - 20.55
Egg loan - 155.05 Int rate 10.4%
Council tax - 92.00
MBNA card - 5.00 Balance 141 Int rate 13.9%
Mobile phone - 5.00 Max - I hardly use my mobile, it's on PAYG
Catalogue - 35 Balance 87 so that will be paid off in a couple of months
Car insurance - 24.14
Savings plan - 40.00Shouldn't you cancel this at the moment? Have you money in it you can access? If so, withdraw it & use to pay off store account etc.
Telewest bundle - 50.00 this is high - does it include sky package, if so it has to go!
MBNA loan - 140.96 Int rate 6.9%
Burtons storecard - 6 Balance 103 Interest rate? Expect it's extortianate so needs more than £6 paid
Electric - 57.00 This is v high - arrears? try uswitch etc, package with gas may be better.
Gas - 14.00
Additions store account - 100.00 Balance 190 so will be paid off soon APR? As above, expect v high, good it's nearly gone.
Egg card - 50.00 Int rate 15.9%
Life insurance - 31.79 V high - who for, shop around, prices have come down a lot.
Water - 18.78
TV licence - 11.07
Amex card - 95 Balance 3155 Int rate 0.40% Is this annual or monthly???
Abbey card - 7 Balance 283.03 Int rate 0% When does this run out? What is limit? 1st thing to do, if a reasonable period, is transfer Egg and MBNA to this.
I hope this is enough information!
try this link: http://www.whatsthecost.com/snowball.aspx, if you put in your balances and APR's it will prioritise and give you a v scary debt free date. We'll then work to get it down!!!
Good luck, you can it!!!A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effortMortgage Balance = £0
"Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"0
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