We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Help, Advice, SOA included!!

2

Comments

  • MellyB_2
    MellyB_2 Posts: 262 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    The advice given is what I would agree with but please, please get some life insurance, especially as you have got a 6 month old baby.

    I know some people might complain about the monthly premium but for peace of mind in case god forbid anything should happen to either of you, it is definitely worth having.

    Good luck with everything!

    x
  • Prudent
    Prudent Posts: 11,694 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I cannot see how your wife can afford not to go back to work. It looks like she will need to go out to work when you are at home. I am very careful with money, but that budget looks far too tight to me. You will all need clothes eventually and will need a budget for activties like baby groups.

    On a postive note, minus the huge debt repayment it looks like you could both live well enough of your salary. Maybe you should think about a DMP?

    If you have a company pension scheme, this may have a death in service benefit of 2 or 4 times your salary.
  • iamana1ias
    iamana1ias Posts: 3,777 Forumite
    MellyB wrote: »
    The advice given is what I would agree with but please, please get some life insurance, especially as you have got a 6 month old baby.

    I know some people might complain about the monthly premium but for peace of mind in case god forbid anything should happen to either of you, it is definitely worth having.

    Good luck with everything!

    x

    I wouldn't agree with this. It's not necessary/suitable for everybody. The OP should get independent advice regarding their options on this.
    I was born too late, into a world that doesn't care
    Oh I wish I was a punk rocker with flowers in my hair
  • DVardysShadow
    DVardysShadow Posts: 18,949 Forumite
    Apart from the credit, you seem to be running a tight ship, Do you have an overdraft or are you managing without? and does the minimum balance [or largest overdraft] remain steady from month to month? If it doesn't then may be a spending diary to find out what money you are not accounting for.

    The payment on the £6800 card appears high. I would suggest reducing it if you can and throwing the money at killing of the £1500 credit card which will cut you £35 more slack - then kill off the £9600 card - this will be a long haul
    Hi, we’ve had to remove your signature. If you’re not sure why please read the forum rules or email the forum team if you’re still unsure - MSE ForumTeam
  • DVardysShadow
    DVardysShadow Posts: 18,949 Forumite
    [Re life insurance]
    iamana1ias wrote: »
    I wouldn't agree with this. It's not necessary/suitable for everybody. The OP should get independent advice regarding their options on this.
    While I agree it is not for everyone [eg no point for singles], the baby makes a difference here.
    Hi, we’ve had to remove your signature. If you’re not sure why please read the forum rules or email the forum team if you’re still unsure - MSE ForumTeam
  • MellyB_2
    MellyB_2 Posts: 262 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    [Re life insurance]

    While I agree it is not for everyone [eg no point for singles], the baby makes a difference here.

    I agree, there isn't much point for single people to have this but for a couple where 1 works and having a 6 month old baby I would have thought it was essential.

    I work for an IFA and don't think I know of any of them that wouldn't recommend some sort of life cover in case anything should happen, especially as there is only 1 wage in the family.

    This is just me, I'm not trying to force anyone to have it so apologies if people don't agree! That's the good thing about this forum, everyone (well most people) have valid opinions!
  • iamana1ias
    iamana1ias Posts: 3,777 Forumite
    MellyB wrote: »
    I agree, there isn't much point for single people to have this but for a couple where 1 works and having a 6 month old baby I would have thought it was essential.

    I work for an IFA and don't think I know of any of them that wouldn't recommend some sort of life cover in case anything should happen, especially as there is only 1 wage in the family.

    This is just me, I'm not trying to force anyone to have it so apologies if people don't agree! That's the good thing about this forum, everyone (well most people) have valid opinions!

    I know several. Funny what they'll recommend when there's commission involved ;)
    I was born too late, into a world that doesn't care
    Oh I wish I was a punk rocker with flowers in my hair
  • katsu
    katsu Posts: 5,050 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Prudent has raised a good point. If you are in employment your employer may provide a death in service payment (poss linked to your co. pension scheme), so reducing or removing the need for additional insurance (dependant on your circumstances, clearly).

    When unable to clear debts I would not focus on additional insurance.
    Debt at highest: £8k. Debt Free 31/12/2009. Original MFD May 2036, MF Dec 2018.
  • iamana1ias
    iamana1ias Posts: 3,777 Forumite
    katsu wrote: »
    Prudent has raised a good point. If you are in employment your employer may provide a death in service payment (poss linked to your co. pension scheme), so reducing or removing the need for additional insurance (dependant on your circumstances, clearly).

    When unable to clear debts I would not focus on additional insurance.

    Absolutely :T
    I was born too late, into a world that doesn't care
    Oh I wish I was a punk rocker with flowers in my hair
  • I would have a look at the CCCS website and fill in their advice form, what this does is get you to put in your incomings & outgoings & provides a recommendation of the next step. I think it will also show that values you have in your budget, especially for food, are way under the recommended level.

    If you are needing to budget this tightly to pay your debts, then maybe look into a DMP. But definitly try & get advice from CCCS or Payplan etc.
    [STRIKE]
    DFW Nerd number 729
    [/STRIKE]
    Debt Free & Proud
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.3K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.4K Life & Family
  • 261.3K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.