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happy at last ty all

well i finaly got rid of my ex husband in may and got a dv we had been married 10 years when i was only 16 and have 3 kids together he both physicaly and mentaly abbused me .

i met a man on my street he made it clear he really likeed me he came round when ex was at work for coffee thats all i would never do anything like that anyway he went and worked away we chatted on msn he told me how he felt about me so i told him how i felt about him he came home on the thersday he came straght hear to see me we decided we wanted to be togther so i told ex i was going to my mums for a few days to think things threw things have not been good for a long time ie us sleeping in seprate beds ect i went to my mums on the friday op came to see me we talk thing threw and decided to spend the next day together and spent the night in a hotel i had only ever had sex with my ex and was very scered of sex buy this time we had a lovely day in york and spent the night in a hotel and thats when i relised id never loved the ex we both came home on the sunday and ex left after he hit me so i called op he came over and made him leave .ex now sees kids every sat over night and speakes to me like a person i am still with the op and i find it hard not been controlled i am allways saying is it ok if i go running ect as this would be somthing i was nevr allowed to do he allways thinks about me sex used to be horrible where ex forced me now op makes me feel so special asking me if i am ok ect loads of cuddels i cant beleave how much my life has changed since may thankyou to all who post on this foram as i dont allways post but do read all your advise and use it i would not have done it without you all :kisses::kisses:
i have dislexia sorry about my spelling :eek:

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  • angelicmary85
    angelicmary85 Posts: 4,977 Forumite
    mummyleads wrote: »
    thankyou to all who post on this foram as i dont allways post but do read all your advise and use it i would not have done it without you all :kisses::kisses:

    That's a lovely post!
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  • MrsAnnie
    MrsAnnie Posts: 679 Forumite
    :j:j I love happy endings!! So pleased for you mummyleads!
    I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he ha
    s had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T Washington
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