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happy at last ty all

mummyleads
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well i finaly got rid of my ex husband in may and got a dv we had been married 10 years when i was only 16 and have 3 kids together he both physicaly and mentaly abbused me .
i met a man on my street he made it clear he really likeed me he came round when ex was at work for coffee thats all i would never do anything like that anyway he went and worked away we chatted on msn he told me how he felt about me so i told him how i felt about him he came home on the thersday he came straght hear to see me we decided we wanted to be togther so i told ex i was going to my mums for a few days to think things threw things have not been good for a long time ie us sleeping in seprate beds ect i went to my mums on the friday op came to see me we talk thing threw and decided to spend the next day together and spent the night in a hotel i had only ever had sex with my ex and was very scered of sex buy this time we had a lovely day in york and spent the night in a hotel and thats when i relised id never loved the ex we both came home on the sunday and ex left after he hit me so i called op he came over and made him leave .ex now sees kids every sat over night and speakes to me like a person i am still with the op and i find it hard not been controlled i am allways saying is it ok if i go running ect as this would be somthing i was nevr allowed to do he allways thinks about me sex used to be horrible where ex forced me now op makes me feel so special asking me if i am ok ect loads of cuddels i cant beleave how much my life has changed since may thankyou to all who post on this foram as i dont allways post but do read all your advise and use it i would not have done it without you all :kisses::kisses:
i met a man on my street he made it clear he really likeed me he came round when ex was at work for coffee thats all i would never do anything like that anyway he went and worked away we chatted on msn he told me how he felt about me so i told him how i felt about him he came home on the thersday he came straght hear to see me we decided we wanted to be togther so i told ex i was going to my mums for a few days to think things threw things have not been good for a long time ie us sleeping in seprate beds ect i went to my mums on the friday op came to see me we talk thing threw and decided to spend the next day together and spent the night in a hotel i had only ever had sex with my ex and was very scered of sex buy this time we had a lovely day in york and spent the night in a hotel and thats when i relised id never loved the ex we both came home on the sunday and ex left after he hit me so i called op he came over and made him leave .ex now sees kids every sat over night and speakes to me like a person i am still with the op and i find it hard not been controlled i am allways saying is it ok if i go running ect as this would be somthing i was nevr allowed to do he allways thinks about me sex used to be horrible where ex forced me now op makes me feel so special asking me if i am ok ect loads of cuddels i cant beleave how much my life has changed since may thankyou to all who post on this foram as i dont allways post but do read all your advise and use it i would not have done it without you all :kisses::kisses:
i have dislexia sorry about my spelling :eek:
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mummyleads wrote: »thankyou to all who post on this foram as i dont allways post but do read all your advise and use it i would not have done it without you all :kisses::kisses:
That's a lovely post!Started PADdin' 13/04/09 paid £7486.66 - CC free 02/11/10
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:j:j I love happy endings!! So pleased for you mummyleads!I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T Washington
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