depression

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

:rotfl: Wot's ya new avvy hun?

it's too small.. doesn't show up very well there.. have to change it agin



lets see if this works..

Sazbo

LOL I think I need a double dose!!!

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

It's likely not significant she didn't mention you. Seems generally she prefers to talk about things in person.

She doesn't really like talking about much other than herself :rotfl:

I've been trying to decide what to do, whether I should get her out of my life, so as to avoid the pain.

It's a tough one, as i'm in too deep really, I care about her, but need to look after myself too.

Flatmate and I discussed it. Flatmate thinks she struggles to get past the fact I am male for 2 reasons

1. She has had NO positive males in her life ever. No male who hasn't hurt her, used her or mistreated her, so she's finding it hard as to why i'm being so nice, and is looking for reasons not to like me.

2. She says she clearly fancies me, and is struggling to 'just be friends'.

I really care about her, but I need her moods like a hole in the head

Didn't have my fish & chips in the end, as I wasn't in the mood.

I had hoped she would even just text me to say Hi.

Flatmate says she'll see what happens when they go back to hers tomorrow and try and find out, but I don't want alot of things she suggested she was going to do - ask her how much she fancies me, if me being male is a problem, and tell her to contact me....

I think 'S' still thinks i'm angry with her

She's too immature for a relationship with me, she acts like a child most of the time. I really care about her, but don't need alot of what she brings.

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

bread is an awful bloater.. likewise rice, pasta, potatoes n that kind of stuff - I lost 8 stone cutting those things out a few years back

8 stone :eek:

I only needed to lose around 3 and have lost 2...........was 2'3, but added 3lb on again

Miroslav

feelinggood wrote:

Evening guys
After a day on my feet, I am absoltely exhausted, and am thinking about bed already.
I've had a quick read through, and I wish I could post a bit more, but I am everso tired and would rather wait till I can write you all the replies you deserve.
I'm thinking about you all, hope you are all okay
Sending lots of hugs
Oh, and I'm good, and almost through day 12 without cigs or drinK!

:wave:

12 days Doing well!

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

it's too small.. doesn't show up very well there.. have to change it agin



lets see if this works..

I need them

EthelBloggs

Miroslav wrote:

8 stone :eek:

I only needed to lose around 3 and have lost 2...........was 2'3, but added 3lb on again

I've had issues with food my whole life.. been as high as 20 stone (not good when you're only 5ft) and as low as 5 and a half stone I can quite easily survive for 3 weeks just on tea and coffee... my record was 23 days and at the time I was really proud of that . Used to the whole binge and get rid thing - then I stopped the getting rid and blew up!

I've still got issues.. but I try to ignore them as much as I can.. to the extent that I'm now a bit chunkier than I should be.. but that's ok cos it means I've got curves and I can walk more than 15 mins without being knackered, lol. Ideally I'd like to have that stomach stapling thing but I can't afford it and I can't see my gp going for it.. he says I need to learn to manage it myself but sometimes it's hard. I often wonder if that's why my daughter now has issues with food too

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

She doesn't really like talking about much other than herself :rotfl:

I've been trying to decide what to do, whether I should get her out of my life, so as to avoid the pain.

It's a tough one, as i'm in too deep really, I care about her, but need to look after myself too.

Flatmate and I discussed it. Flatmate thinks she struggles to get past the fact I am male for 2 reasons

1. She has had NO positive males in her life ever. No male who hasn't hurt her, used her or mistreated her, so she's finding it hard as to why i'm being so nice, and is looking for reasons not to like me.

2. She says she clearly fancies me, and is struggling to 'just be friends'.

I really care about her, but I need her moods like a hole in the head

Didn't have my fish & chips in the end, as I wasn't in the mood.

I had hoped she would even just text me to say Hi.

Flatmate says she'll see what happens when they go back to hers tomorrow and try and find out, but I don't want alot of things she suggested she was going to do - ask her how much she fancies me, if me being male is a problem, and tell her to contact me....

I think 'S' still thinks i'm angry with her

She's too immature for a relationship with me, she acts like a child most of the time. I really care about her, but don't need alot of what she brings.

Well, I think the fact that you are at least foregrounding your own needs now means that you're in a better position to evaluate situation with S and deal with it whichever path your friendship takes. x

EthelBloggs

Miroslav wrote:

I need them

If you find some.. let me know cos I could do with some too

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

LOL I think I need a double dose!!!

you n me both, hehehe