So..

speedster

PlayingHardball wrote: »

YES! And about time you realised this, I'd say.

I don't feel you would have anything helpful to advise the OP anyway, as all I read from your posts are anger, malice and contempt to parents on here who seek financial support from NRP's through the CSA.

I wish the OP all the best, good on you, don't give up.

no. just cant be @rsed wasting my breath.

lulumoo

Are you feeling tired Speedster.. please say what you want to say ... get it off your chest it will make you feel much better I am sure :-)

speedster

plus, there's naff all decent advice here. i'll leave you lot to flame the male populus.

just a bunch of feminists ranting and talking bollix.

i'll post advice and help on threads that warrant it. :rolleyes:

speedster

lulumoo wrote: »

Are you feeling tired Speedster.. please say what you want to say ... get it off your chest it will make you feel much better I am sure :-)

i have sent you a private message.

Kimitatsu

All play nicely please - OP has asked a valid question about what she can do if the OP refuses to disclose their income, all personal comments should be kept to yourselves.

OP you can ask for compliance to become involved or you can appeal on the grounds of lifestyle inconsistent with his income, if the appeal fails then you need to go to a tribunal. I agree it does seem ridiculous that he says that he wont disclose and they think thats ok?

DUTR

Kimitatsu wrote: »

All play nicely please - OP has asked a valid question about what she can do if the OP refuses to disclose their income, all personal comments should be kept to yourselves.

OP you can ask for compliance to become involved or you can appeal on the grounds of lifestyle inconsistent with his income, if the appeal fails then you need to go to a tribunal. I agree it does seem ridiculous that he says that he wont disclose and they think thats ok?

The question has been answered by Kellogs36 , so the forum rules should be applied

lulumoo

Ok thanks for all your help. They have asked me to prove his income but short of hiding in bushes outside the site he is working on taking photographs with a big gold spade and wide lense in my hand what can I do?

DUTR

lulumoo wrote: »

Ok thanks for all your help. They have asked me to prove his income but short of hiding in bushes outside the site he is working on taking photographs with a big gold spade and wide lense in my hand what can I do?

It seems you have other threads on the episode spanning back as far as 2007 where the csa have been involved already

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=481121&highlight=

My troll alarm is starting to activate

simpywimpy

2007? child 18th months in 2010?

lulumoo

I have you are right? My ex ex partner who I have two children by has moved abroad. Does that make me a troll? I have nothing to hide!