25 yr old mummys journey

smarties84

Thank you both, yes he is lovely

Today was my dd's third birthday, love her so much. She had a great day and so did i. Also got my new laptop.

pennywisepoundstupid

Happy birthday little smartie:bdaycake:

smarties84

LOL @ little smartie Thanks hun x

pennywisepoundstupid

:grouphug: sending you a big hug hun, I'm sure we have the same hubby, had blazing row with mine yesterday, over the fact he never seems to think i have an opinion on matters, talks over or for me and makes decisions(especially with family)for me:mad:. yet ask the p!ll*ck what he wants for tea and can he decide.

pennywisepoundstupid

Also mean't to say try and take it easy hun, if the house is a mess or things don't get done just leave it, or leave his thing, he will soon get the idea when he can't find anything or there is no clean clothes. Had a friend whos hubby used to drive her mad because he was so messy and didn't put things away so she used to put the in really random places, like work tie in the freezer, car keys in the shower, when he moaned at her at about it she would say well your tie doesn't belong on the mantlepiece but it doesn't stop you, they are now divorced though:rotfl:.

chevalier

Sorry to hear you are feeling so down. You know that part of that will be pregnancy hormones, part of it will be the strangeness of partner working away etc. It will be a bit of a shock to him as well. Sometimes you just have to decide, that being relaxed and not stressed, is more important the a tidy home. This is what I had to do, accept that I was the only one that saw the dirt in the kitchen, bathroom etc, so I do what is enough for me....
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pennywisepoundstupid

Glad your feeling a bit brighter hun, regarding it being the norm, personally i don;'t think it is,i think nowadays cos everyone is so busy, work various shifts not 9 till5 mon to fri etc,so chores are done in the evening, i think our generation has to work harder (sorry i'm presuming you similar age to me early 30s) to make time for each other where as for our parents/grandparents, mum was at home during day so jobs/shopping was done then, meal on table when hubby got in from work and then family time, it was also less common to work weekends. Gosh i hope that waffle made sense.

Good luck with the scan, hope hubby makes it back, also i think when i was pregnant my hormones sent me a bit funny, we and hubby could be laughing and the next minute i would take a remark the wrong way and be in tears and convinced he didn't love me or the baby, i have to admit i didn't do the whole pregnancy thing very well, i was fine once i had had my 2 but whilst pregnant:eek:.

pennywisepoundstupid

You never know hun, my hubbies like that and catches me off guard sometimes as he will do something really thoughtful, he says if he treated me all the time a wouldn't apprieciate (sp) it:rotfl:. Your being very good i would he peeked by now.

smarties84

It wasnt anything for me - knew it wudnt be!!

pennywisepoundstupid

Oh mummy, sorry to here that.