lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

lilmissmup

Well as well as me starting driving lessons, me and my best mate are starting exercise classes Wednesday as we both want to get toned, we wanted to do pole dancing but no courses on at moment near us, we might start that in 6 weeks.

I need to do something about my weight, put on a fair amount again recently so will weigh myself Wednesday and then work from there.

I am eating my 3rd cake of the day though right now....

lilmissmup

Hello.....

I never seem to have the time to be here (or anywhere!) anymore.

Lifes pretty hectic, I am doing my driving lessons and also the gym on my spare non-simon evenings and also trying to see friends.

Me and Simon are still all good, though his ex has started up again, spent two hours last night talking to him online trying to not make him feel bad as shes giving him loads of guilt trips, saying she is lonely and her life is worthless.

He says she has seen us driving around and that she seems to notice he is happier now than when he was with her.

Shes defo trying to get him to go running back, just have to see how it goes and be as supportive as I can without making !!!!!y comments but I was honest about how I felt last night, andI told him he has to walk away from her if she starts, be polite but take the kids and just go otherwise if she gets a reaction she will just carry on.

I don't think he would go back to her as he said last night he was happier with me but with the kids involved who knows, she has asked him to have the kids more....I guess a plan to see me less but it shouldnt affect us yet. Apparantly she is having counselling and is on meds......I really want to scream you dumped him for another woman after having an affair so f**k off now you stupid **tch as hes finally happy and you can't stand it.

Lets hope I don't bump into her.....

Oh and my ex is now living in Bournemouth with his girlfriend, so at least he isn't around to upset me, we have been quite civil recently on messages but am glad he has moved away!

So yeah life is good (apart from me feeling bad for S about his ex and a tad worried) but no saving done this month apart from £50, lots of spending though

ziggles50

Hiya
Was thinking of you today.
I see you're being very good with the gym...good grief just the updatees make me tired. You're doing great hun keep at it! And ignore crazy ex she has to deal with her own demons unfortunately that kind of affect you too but so far soo good and long may it continue!

lilmissmup

LOL I have only done two exercise classes and 2 gym inductions but am going tomorrow as I haven't even bothered to get dressed today and feel guilty now for being so lazy.

Yeah I know there is nothing I can do in relation to his ex apart from be the more fabulous one and of course support him if he needs it!

mariagti

Ohh good luck with the driving lessons!

She left him for a woman?!

lilmissmup

Yep was having an affair with a woman at her work......:cool: They aren't together now though but were after they split up.

She sounds like a right nutter tbh but then who am I to talk?

Shoe_Gal

I am exhausted just reading your update :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

lilmissmup

Ooooooooo big news!

I got a job at Vauxhall....only took them another month or so to offer me it but I have accepted and handing in notice tomorrow More pennies, closer to home (at present) and more prospects hopefully!!!

:j:beer::j

Souk08

I'm SO pleased for you lady XXX

Shoe_Gal

Well done you :j:j:j:j