lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

doodledo_2

Thats exactly how I feel. Unfortunately with dating sites that first reaction is from your pic and I am not ready to post my ugly mug on the net.

My goal one day is to flood my photo all over facebook and dating sites, just need to lose about 100000000 stone first :rotfl:

lilmissmup

I have seen pics of both of you and your both lovely!!!!

As soon as I get my brace off I am having that photo shoot I wanna do with hair and make up done just for confidence, then will use that to stun the men, will be six months away but am sure still gonna be single then lol.

Souk08

Has it ever occured to any of you lot that few men are perfect either? Before you go dating anyone you ALL need to work on your confidence. Lecture Over.

doodledo_2

Souk I love you every post you make makes me smile.

Yep they aren't perfect but if you don't feel it in yourself then it ain't gonna happen. If that makes sense.

Souk08

I totally agree. But how are you going to get your confidence up.

lilmissmup

I love Souk too, shes like a refreshing slap in the face! :rotfl:

Your right (again!).

Wasn't really feeling it with IM2 but when he asked me out again it felt good, just a shame had to blow it but didn't wanna lie to him, had enough games in my life from !!!!!!.

Am sad though, he was such a nice guy, would have liked a second drink. Ho Hum.

Might have to get on some other sites too, Match seems to be dead over the last week anyway, by dead I mean no hunks loving me

ziggles50

Yes yes Souk lecture heard...big chip on shoulder slowly being reduced :-) It's the whole meat market phase that can be a bit of a killer on the old confidence...going on the date is the easy part for me...(after the immodium of course!)

Souk08

I know but whats your option, sit in and wait for someone to knock your door? Life's too short. I'm never going to let any of the guys I meet be my boyfriend but I enjoy sex and I'm not going to go without just because I'm on my own so I use it as a means to an end.

doodledo_2

Souk08 wrote: »

I know but whats your option, sit in and wait for someone to knock your door? Life's too short. I'm never going to let any of the guys I meet be my boyfriend but I enjoy sex and I'm not going to go without just because I'm on my own so I use it as a means to an end.

Can I ask why would none be your boyfriend??

And in response to what am I going to do I am hoping you can tell me

ziggles50

Souk08 wrote: »

I know but whats your option, sit in and wait for someone to knock your door? Life's too short. I'm never going to let any of the guys I meet be my boyfriend but I enjoy sex and I'm not going to go without just because I'm on my own so I use it as a means to an end.

Once upon a time i had these thoughts and was like this for a whole 18 months (that my friends would describe as me having gone over to the bad side;))but i was forced to see the error of my ways by people with 'morals' But i feel like this may actually be the way forward for me...and since you have been singing the praises of just going with the flow...it's become easier for me to accept!...rambling but i like your philosophy anyway and i am working my way to adopting it shortly...