lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

lilmissmup

Yeah get the feeling he is getting confused though with which girl he is chatting to on facebook, think he sent me a message for one of his other dates lol.

doodledo_2

Why you say that? Surely he can see your pic??

lilmissmup

Cos he said he wanted to go for a drink friday and then it changed to dvd tomorrow lol.

Souk08

doodledo wrote: »

Fairplay to him. I think blokes do that so much better than us women. If you are really serious about dating its the way to go, line a few up and take it from there

Doodle do is right. Line em up and then you wont get all hung up and girly over one and will just enjoy the nights out.
,I of course am a gay man trapped in a page 3 girls body so I don't get hung up at all. Fit PE teacher came round tonight and I have another date tomorrow. I love my life just now too XXX

lilmissmup

Go Souk!

Well told IM2 not ready to hang out alone with him yet and think we have come to a decision there will not be a second date as he wants to get in the swing of things so ho hum.

Back to the drawing board, hopefully someone will come along soon who is willing to wait or sparks me enough first time.

Odette

Littlemiss...

I read your diary but Im a bit of a lurker but I have some important advice!

In november last year I broke up with my bf of 4 years, it was over/bad for a while, Id been cheating on him for a while anyway so I immediatley signed up for a couple of dating sites. I went out with anyone I clicked with and met some really great guys, I was honest I was 'dating' around etc and some of them Im still friends with.
Last January I met 'J', we had a date, I thought he was a little weird and I wasnt that impressed but we had lots of things in common. I didnt know if I would give him a second chance.

Right now, hes sitting next to me, were moving in together in two weeks time. He is amazing, I've never felt this about anyone, he opens doors for me, he looks after me so well and he says every day he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.

I just wanted to let you know, give everyone a second or third chance to impress you, just incase .

lilmissmup

Thanks hun, he made the choice though cos I said I wasn't ready to hang out alone with him so can't do much now anyway!

doodledo_2

God we do give some great advice don't we.

My problem is I can give it out but can't do it myself lol.

I would love to actively date but I am so insecure over my looks I just can't. The crazy thing is I come across as such a confident person but I am so not lol.

lilmissmup

doodledo wrote: »

God we do give some great advice don't we.

My problem is I can give it out but can't do it myself lol.

I would love to actively date but I am so insecure over my looks I just can't. The crazy thing is I come across as such a confident person but I am so not lol.

I am the same, can't believe anyone finds me attractive etc. Ex really didn;t help by pretty much telling me he dumped me as his work mates said he could do better so why have kids with me etc?

Am blubbing away right now if I am totally honest, think its just frustration, been on a rollercoaster of emotions over the last week and now crying them all out, just feeling a bit lonely and need a hug and some male company/attention and all gone again but maybe I am not ready if I can't go round a guys house, it wasn't the dvd thing though, I am sure he would want more and the thought of being intimate with another guy scares me silly now :(

ziggles50

doodledo wrote: »

God we do give some great advice don't we.

My problem is I can give it out but can't do it myself lol.

I would love to actively date but I am so insecure over my looks I just can't. The crazy thing is I come across as such a confident person but I am so not lol.

Ditto!
I soooo feel you doodledo...i don't have a pic on my profile and prefer not to say build (which is carrying much more than a few extra pounds!!!)