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Saving for a Grand Child without them knowing

Hi All

Question given to my by the Mother-in-law (So help me please!)

MIL, does not speak to parents (my OH's Brother and his wife) of her grand child, but she would like to save effectively for her a variable amount as and when she can.

She was told that to have the account as tax free (because it is for the child) she would need to provide the birth certificate, but they will not provide / she will not ask the child parents !!!!

Any tips for the MIL to save for the Grand Child?


Currently has £200 set asside, and can not fix a montly amount, so realy as samll as possible.


suspect for her 16th 18, th or 21 st Birthday, She is 2 now.
Thanks

Comments

  • simpywimpy
    simpywimpy Posts: 2,386 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I think anyone can get a copy from the register office where the birth was registered (or they used to be able to)
  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    simplywimpy is right anyone could get copy of birth cert from registrars
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
    MFW 2012 no86 OP 0/2000 :D
  • Mikeyorks
    Mikeyorks Posts: 10,380 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Very similar thread from recently - covers some of the options :-

    http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2144285&highlight=child
    If you want to test the depth of the water .........don't use both feet !
  • NJW69
    NJW69 Posts: 843 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    She can just open an account in the childs name with her as the signatory and then hand it over whenever she feels appropriate.
    GC Jan £318/£350, Feb £221.84/£300, Mar £200.00/£250 Apr £201.05/£200 May £199.61/£200 June £17.25/£200

    NSD Feb 23/12 :j NSD Mar 20/20 NSD Apr 24/20
    May 24/24
  • Thanks for the replies.

    I first I thought great we have a solution, but then I remembered, the Grand Daughter was born in Gibraltar when her parents where posted there (Her Father is in the Army)

    Is it still possible to get the birth certificate?
  • nzseries1
    nzseries1 Posts: 2,240 Forumite
    edited 30 December 2009 at 10:10AM
    On this page:
    http://www.gibraltar.gov.gi/contact-us

    It lists this information:
    Reistry of Births, Deaths & Marriages
    Registry of Gibraltarians
    Executive Officer - 200 51725
    Birth, Deaths & Gibraltarian Status - 200 78303
    Email Address - [EMAIL="bdmregistry.csro@gibraltar.gov.gi"]bdmregistry.csro@gibraltar.gov.gi[/EMAIL]
    Marriages - 200 72289
    Emial Address - [EMAIL="marriages.csro@gibraltar.gov.gi"]marriages.csro@gibraltar.gov.gi[/EMAIL]
    Finance & Administration - 200 51725
    Fax Number - 200 42706

    Their spelling leaves much to be desired, but I hope it helps you :D
    Gibraltar's country dialling code is 350.
    You're spelling is effecting me so much. Im trying not to be phased by it but your all making me loose my mind on mass!! My head is loosing it's hair. I'm going to take myself off the electoral role like I should of done ages ago and move to the Caribean. I already brought my plane ticket, all be it a refundable 1.
  • Thanks for the replys. I did try to post this yesterday but the site was down.

    I though she was born in Gib, the fact that she was born on MOD property makes thinks a bit different.

    This link

    http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/certificates/

    Also alows you to state overseas births and specificaly MOD, so should work.

    Thanks All.
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