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Starting to feel in control again!!

the last few weeks have been really hard and its a long stretch ahead, but i am now starting to feel in control again. I have had replies from all but one of my creditors and all agreed my plan give or take a couple of pounds. I have finally got some extra work bring in few more pennies.
I have worked through my bank statements and was in shock the amount i need to claim back. this letter is going off tomorrow!!
I know i am only just starting to pay off my debts but i am starting to feel positive and able to face things a bit more positive.
Thanks for all your support.
DFW NERD 276: Proud to be dealing with my debts.
Champagne taste and lemonade money!!! ;)
Light bulb moment May 8th 2006
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  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    well done you. That's all excellent news, and I bet you feel a lot better. Don;t forget, there's only one way those numbers are going, and that's down.
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

    Current Pay Off Target : £1500 :mad:
  • MCBIRNIE25
    MCBIRNIE25 Posts: 555 Forumite
    Well done lightatendoftunnel.
    Glad you are now becoming a debtbuster ;-)
  • jessicamb
    jessicamb Posts: 10,446 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Well Done
    Glad you are feeling happier.
    The early bird gets the worm but the second mouse gets the cheese :cool:
  • thanks for your kind words. I am actually starting to smile again and its a good feeling. If i get my bank charges back it will take a nice bite out my debt!!
    DFW NERD 276: Proud to be dealing with my debts.
    Champagne taste and lemonade money!!! ;)
    Light bulb moment May 8th 2006
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,909 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Glad that you feel happier & that you seem so much more in control.
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  • oops_a_daisy
    oops_a_daisy Posts: 2,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Name Dropper Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    WELL DONE lightatendoftunnel and good luck with claiming those bank charges :D
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  • CosmoCat
    CosmoCat Posts: 681 Forumite
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    all the best with the bank charges. and well done for getting in control of the debts. you're doing really well.
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  • My aim this month is not to run out of money week before payday thus eating some mucky mixtures for tea!! :eek:
    DFW NERD 276: Proud to be dealing with my debts.
    Champagne taste and lemonade money!!! ;)
    Light bulb moment May 8th 2006
  • john_kent
    john_kent Posts: 425 Forumite
    In a few months time , you will realise how much money you have wasted over the years.

    First month on a plan is to pay all you agreed on pay day then you know what you have to live on.

    Subsequant months become easier as you know what to expect.

    I have 5 day til pay day and £46 pund lft in my account which is less then at this stage last month , but I have also got 3/4 tank of fuel and no food to buy.
  • john_kent wrote:
    In a few months time , you will realise how much money you have wasted over the years.

    First month on a plan is to pay all you agreed on pay day then you know what you have to live on.

    Subsequant months become easier as you know what to expect.

    I have 5 day til pay day and £46 pund lft in my account which is less then at this stage last month , but I have also got 3/4 tank of fuel and no food to buy.
    Thats what i am hoping. I get paid on wednesday and this will be my first real month on the plan so fingers crossed it all goes to plan!!!!
    DFW NERD 276: Proud to be dealing with my debts.
    Champagne taste and lemonade money!!! ;)
    Light bulb moment May 8th 2006
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