We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.
This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.
PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide
Still entitled to half?
Comments
-
If you haven't paid into the house - mortgage or maintenance - you will be unlikely to be entitled to half of the asset. You may be entitled to a proportion but, unless this was specified as part of the divorce, you will have to demonstrate the value of the equity at the time of the split.Declutterbug-in-progress.⭐️⭐️⭐️ ⭐️⭐️0
-
Thank you for your helpful replies. I would just like to say in answer to some of the other replies that I did not squander any money even though I had nothing except the clothes I wore, bankruptcy came following loss of job and poor health. Leaving my son was by no means easy nor were the constant threats that he would move away with my son and I would never see him again, something I was advised by solicitors I could not prevent with the UK. Please do not judge me when you know nothing of the situation I was in.0
-
hostile posters now scurry away - tail between their legs.
OP - good luck - I would have to say its worth a try if for no other reason than you know one way or another - from my perspective if your OH has been supported by the state and not paying his own way my sympathy is not with him. however it is a long time ago - perhaps you could try citizens advice or something
only caution - not sure about bankruptcy - but would they have any claim if you are successful?I think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
Smiling and waving and looking so fine0 -
i too left in 1986 with just the clothes on my back, my ex husband still has the property plus everything in it, no divorce issues except no order ever made of what would happen to the property once kids grown up, many women loose out not all of us are gold diggers but we still should be entitled to some money from all the years we put in to pay for the property.my bark is worse than my bite!!!!!!!!0
-
If your name is still on the deeds you may have a claim to the procedes of a sale, these would probably be proportional to your contributions towards the purchase and the mortgage, the proportion paid in benefits would be your ex-husbands equity and not yours as he was the claimant.
whether you could force a sale after all this time is doubtful and something to be answered by a solicitor.0 -
You will probably be entitled to half the equity increase from when you first started paying half the mortgage, and until when you stopped and moved out. Going back 30 years, I'm thinking this entitlement is going to be very little, and would probably cost more in legal bills than you're set to gain. This would explain why the bankruptcy people weren't interested, as your entitlement was so little it wasn't worth the effort!
If your ex continued to pay the mortgage, then it's up to him what he does with his share.Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')
No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)0 -
terrierlady wrote: »i too left in 1986 with just the clothes on my back, my ex husband still has the property plus everything in it, no divorce issues except no order ever made of what would happen to the property once kids grown up, many women loose out not all of us are gold diggers but we still should be entitled to some money from all the years we put in to pay for the property.
Fully agree that the OP should be entitled to a portion of the house equal to what they paid in. If they didn't pay off half the mortgage though then this is unlikely to be half the property, possibly half the amount they had paid jointly up to the separation sounds fair to me. Not that fairness has anything to do with the law these days.If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything0 -
In my view (and I apologise in advance to the other posters) but nobody here, including me, have any real idea about the legal situation.
I would strongly suggest you speak to the CAB and get legal advice.0 -
have you got any more details?
Like for example ... i know its a long time ago but back in 1970...
What was the price of the house? How much deposit did you jointly put down as a couple... and how long did you pay into it?
For example if you had 5% deposit.. and only paid mortgage for 1 year.. then i;d say your share was around 2.5-3% of house sale... (half of deposit plus maybe a bit more). ofc u should seek proper advice0 -
Thank you for all your help and advice. I will contact the CAB to check further and will post here in due course to let you know. Happy New Year0
This discussion has been closed.
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply
Categories
- All Categories
- 354.4K Banking & Borrowing
- 254.4K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 455.4K Spending & Discounts
- 247.3K Work, Benefits & Business
- 604K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 178.4K Life & Family
- 261.5K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.7K Read-Only Boards
