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Pensions Planning: The NUMBER
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cfw1994 said:SouthCoastBoy said:I've given up trying to second guess my number, too many variables, currently at 3k per mth net in today's money, but no idea if that is correct. Depends on kids rents uni housing costs etc.
If it did, however, you should still be able to figure that out - in theory the parental support goes up to about £5k....I would call it £6k (£500 pcm). See https://www.savethestudent.org/money/asking-parents-for-money-university.html
On the “too many variables” comment - that’s precisely why you break it down to fixed and variable costs. Why not give it a go: it’s part of the journey to figuring out when you can chose to give it all up!It's just my opinion and not advice.1 -
I spent ages trying to figure out my number by looking at all the things I thought I spent money on. Took ages and I always thought there was something missing.
So more recently (well, about three years ago) I took a different approach: since everything I spend goes through my bank account, I just looked at my bank statements (conveniently turned into a spreadsheet) and totalled all the outgoings. That tells me what I spend from my net salary. This turned out to be a significantly higher number than the total of what I thought I should be spending but couldn't really be argued with - after all, it was what I had actually spent.
I recommend it as an approach. Once you have the headline number, you can start figuring out which items won't be needed in retirement and subtract them from the headline figure. In my case, the big number was savings, but for others it could be mortgage payments, commuting costs or other business-related expenses. Having done that, then figure out whether you can get enough from your pension(s) to support the level of expenditure you've identified, and if not, do some serious head-scratching.
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Another approach is to be living off isas etc whilst DKs are at uni as this then qualifies them for max govt loans for living expenses - whether using this source of funding makes sense depends in a way if they are in the small percentage (17%) who expect to pay off their loans or the majority who will end up with the balance being written off when they reach the required age.I think....1
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SouthCoastBoy said:cfw1994 said:SouthCoastBoy said:I've given up trying to second guess my number, too many variables, currently at 3k per mth net in today's money, but no idea if that is correct. Depends on kids rents uni housing costs etc.
If it did, however, you should still be able to figure that out - in theory the parental support goes up to about £5k....I would call it £6k (£500 pcm). See https://www.savethestudent.org/money/asking-parents-for-money-university.html
On the “too many variables” comment - that’s precisely why you break it down to fixed and variable costs. Why not give it a go: it’s part of the journey to figuring out when you can chose to give it all up!
That being said we as individuals are only trying to do the best for our own so I don't disagree with digging as deep as you can to provide support. Its certainly something I'll be budgeting in although as it sounds like circa £20k a child it certainly could result in an extra few years work.1 -
randompenitent said:I spent ages trying to figure out my number by looking at all the things I thought I spent money on. Took ages and I always thought there was something missing.
So more recently (well, about three years ago) I took a different approach: since everything I spend goes through my bank account, I just looked at my bank statements (conveniently turned into a spreadsheet) and totalled all the outgoings. That tells me what I spend from my net salary. This turned out to be a significantly higher number than the total of what I thought I should be spending but couldn't really be argued with - after all, it was what I had actually spent.
I recommend it as an approach. Once you have the headline number, you can start figuring out which items won't be needed in retirement and subtract them from the headline figure. In my case, the big number was savings, but for others it could be mortgage payments, commuting costs or other business-related expenses. Having done that, then figure out whether you can get enough from your pension(s) to support the level of expenditure you've identified, and if not, do some serious head-scratching.
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I have done our monthly accounts for over 20 years so have a pretty good idea what we spend and where it goes.We both retired from full time a few years ago, and so far our annual spend has remained more or less the same, (circa £24k). We had budgeted to spend significantly more during retirement but with recent events this has not happened!..."It's everybody's fault but mine...."3
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Anonymous101 said:SouthCoastBoy said:cfw1994 said:SouthCoastBoy said:I've given up trying to second guess my number, too many variables, currently at 3k per mth net in today's money, but no idea if that is correct. Depends on kids rents uni housing costs etc.
If it did, however, you should still be able to figure that out - in theory the parental support goes up to about £5k....I would call it £6k (£500 pcm). See https://www.savethestudent.org/money/asking-parents-for-money-university.html
On the “too many variables” comment - that’s precisely why you break it down to fixed and variable costs. Why not give it a go: it’s part of the journey to figuring out when you can chose to give it all up!
That being said we as individuals are only trying to do the best for our own so I don't disagree with digging as deep as you can to provide support. Its certainly something I'll be budgeting in although as it sounds like circa £20k a child it certainly could result in an extra few years work.It's just my opinion and not advice.2 -
SouthCoastBoy said:Anonymous101 said:SouthCoastBoy said:cfw1994 said:SouthCoastBoy said:I've given up trying to second guess my number, too many variables, currently at 3k per mth net in today's money, but no idea if that is correct. Depends on kids rents uni housing costs etc.
If it did, however, you should still be able to figure that out - in theory the parental support goes up to about £5k....I would call it £6k (£500 pcm). See https://www.savethestudent.org/money/asking-parents-for-money-university.html
On the “too many variables” comment - that’s precisely why you break it down to fixed and variable costs. Why not give it a go: it’s part of the journey to figuring out when you can chose to give it all up!
That being said we as individuals are only trying to do the best for our own so I don't disagree with digging as deep as you can to provide support. Its certainly something I'll be budgeting in although as it sounds like circa £20k a child it certainly could result in an extra few years work.
It is much more realistic to think of it as a graduate tax which is disguised as a loan to satisfy the Tory party way of thinking of the world.I think....5 -
SouthCoastBoy saidYes £20k a child is about right, as you say system is broken and unfair. The interest rates on the loans are a complete rip off as well, RPI+3%. Currently RPI is based on a figure of 2.6% (RPI at March 2020)! so nearly 6% interest when base rates is 0.10%, unbelievable that government think this is acceptable.
We are topping up pensions at the moment and these payments look like they are taken off earnings when calculating loans available. I know someone who owned his own business and manipulated income to allow their child to access larger loans. So the system is not ideal but I suspect whatever was in place would work for some not others.
Calculating the cost of children is difficult. If potentially funding Uni in run up to retirement or early stages thereof it can make a difference to when you can give up. We’ve been lucky, eldest is an apprentice, 2nd at Uni in France so funds built up for those now available to help with 3rd and 4th. It wasn’t what was expected and we have friends with children doing Masters!1 -
or you can raise a darling daughter that chooses a 6 year undergrad degree! She will absolutely never pay off the loans.I’m a Senior Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Pensions, Annuities & Retirement Planning, Loans
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