Call me a control freak! Would you let OH book your honeymoon?

dm1465

My dear sweet OH is off out this week to book the honeymoon! Now call me a control freak if you like, but would you trust yours to do it and keep it a secret from you till after you were married? xx

underlay_guru

Hi,

A marriage is based on 100% trust of each other, is it not?!?!?

If you dont trust your OH to do a simple task...why are you marrying them?!

lucylouwoo

NO NO NO!!!

My idea of a relaxing honeymoon and my OH are very different, i think you need to decide together.

I wouldn't agree that booking a honeymoon is a simple task, putting the bin out is a simple task, not deciding where you are going for your first holiday as man and wife.

I will happily admit that I am a control freak though.

DKLS

My fianc!e is organising everything wedding day related I sort the Honeymoon.

3 Weeks in Thailand, mix of Big city/Spa resort/Jungle trekking/rafting/elephants/ and beaches. A good combination of activities to suit both our tastes.

The only surprise is the Biz class flights.

Have managed in my capacity as hopeless man to:

Book flights
Sort holiday jabs, (2 armfulls and a bumfull!)
Sort itinerary, and hire independent guides
Sort independent luxury transfers
Sort malaria tabs, and squitty tum tabs etc

mrbrightside842

Ooh I'd love to have a surprise honeymoon. We went to Florida though, and I don't think he'd have booked that on his own, and we loved that so much we want to go back. But yeah, I'd let him do it. I'd drop him some ideas of places though, and what would be nice. He knows me well enough to not book a biking holiday in France (his ideal) but I'd prob hint a few places at him.

robpw2

yes why not women need to relax more when it comes to weddings its 1 day then you get 30 years of stress and hassle if your lucky

bigmomma051204

underlay_guru wrote: »

Hi,

A marriage is based on 100% trust of each other, is it not?!?!?

If you dont trust your OH to do a simple task...why are you marrying them?!

How much is a one way ticket to the wonderful, idealistic Planet Fairytale that YOU live on??

(In this day and age - i think anyone who places "100% trust" in someone else is asking for trouble alongside being beautifully naive ....but thats just me, living on Planet Prudent i suppose....) :cool:

Kylie

My honeymoon was meant to be a suprise... but I couldn't help myself.

I KNEW he wouldn't be moneysaving - so I had to "help"...

Either way... it's Coco Palm Bodu Hithi at Maldives... I think we will get over it!

No control freak? NO.

Control ENTHUSIAST.

anderson8

bigmomma051204 wrote: »

How much is a one way ticket to the wonderful, idealistic Planet Fairytale that YOU live on??

(In this day and age - i think anyone who places "100% trust" in someone else is asking for trouble alongside being beautifully naive ....but thats just me, living on Planet Prudent i suppose....) :cool:

i guess i must live on planet fairytale, i do trust my partner 100%,if i didnt then i wouldnt be marrying them. and by doing so i do NOT think that i am asking for trouble, only getting to spend my life with someone who i love and trust wholeheartedly

zfrl

Having given him the one task of booking the car which he finally did a week before the wedding there was no way I would let him book the honeymoon.
If I had I wouldn't of had one!

Phyzelda

I'd trust mine to.