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*It's the weekend!* 28th/29th Nov Chat thread
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He doesn't give a shit about "fair" just about his own agenda and how you can help - whether you like that or not. Tell him no, and if he violates that, inform the police.
They will tell him no in such a way, that any inkling of sense will stop him.
OH has said as much, he says that he is willing to tell him not to call again but I havent let him as yet...........maybe I will after his call tonight has upset me so much.But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
i pm'd you a code too but speedy linda was there first lolI'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
Finally Debt Free...0 -
OH has said as much, he says that he is willing to tell him not to call again but I havent let him as yet...........maybe I will after his call tonight has upset me so much.
IMHO that would be a good idea."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
OMG Lou thats scarey stuff that he is telling you things that are dangerous.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
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***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
OH has said as much, he says that he is willing to tell him not to call again but I havent let him as yet...........maybe I will after his call tonight has upset me so much.
Get your OH to answer his call next time! :rolleyes:
...Linda xxIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0 -
O Lou that's awful. xxxNevertheless she persisted.0
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Hey Lou, thats not good eh. Doing all the above is easier said then done I suppose as you have to work with him and as you say you may feel you will become one of his 'targets'. All you can do is be honest with him, tell him politely how it is, to stop phoning you at home and if he really needs to speak to you about it he can do at work. If you haven't got a big red target or bullseye on your head he won't be able to hit you. Your own house is in order so to speak, so any actions you think he may take if he turns on you will prove to be immaterial as you're all squared away.
You could go to the headmaster too if you feel you cannot approach him.
Good luck, but you shouldn't be in tears. xThis is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com0 -
Hey Lou, thats not good eh. Doing all the above is easier said then done I suppose as you have to work with him and as you say you may feel you will become one of his 'targets'. All you can do is be honest with him, tell him politely how it is, to stop phoning you at home and if he really needs to speak to you about it he can do at work. If you haven't got a big red target or bullseye on your head he won't be able to hit you. Your own house is in order so to speak, so any actions you think he may take if he turns on you will prove to be immaterial as you're all squared away.
You could go to the headmaster too if you feel you cannot approach him.
Good luck, but you shouldn't be in tears. x
He is no longer working there Lenny, he put his notice in then dropped off on the sick so at least I dont have to see him every day.......thank God.But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
Woohoo Lenster :wave:
...Linda xxIt's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.0
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