Child Maintaintence question

DX2

Bellio wrote: »

Unbelieveable.

:DTook longer than I expected for the OP to get a roasting.

maggied_2

Bellio wrote: »

Unbelieveable.

In what way?

Bellio

What way do you think ? Maybe im reading it wrong but surely he gives her now more than she would be getting anyway. How much does she want. Or is it a case off ill make him suffer.

maggied_2

I honestly didn't know.

Either:

1. Unbelievable that the CSA takes the new wife's children into account
2. Unbelievable that OP would expect them not to

Bellio

Well both 1, 2 and the whole post !!! lol

shell_542

shipr!!!95 wrote: »

I will have a think over the next couple of months while the divorce goes through..I am on IS at the moment, looking to go back to work in the new year.

Thank you for your comments

If you are on IS at the moment, you should only be keeping at most £20 a week off of him and it will only be £20 a week at most if through the CSA.

If you are receiving more than £20 and haven't told the IS people who can then adust your income support payments, you are actually committing benefit fraud ........

shiprob195

shell_542 wrote: »

If you are on IS at the moment, you should only be keeping at most £20 a week off of him and it will only be £20 a week at most if through the CSA.

If you are receiving more than £20 and haven't told the IS people who can then adust your income support payments, you are actually committing benefit fraud ........

I am on IS ...I had a home visit from the DWP last week...she told me that the fact XH was paying the mortgage in liew of maint..i need not declare it......she even wrote it down for me.

When i take over the mortgage on my own....i am going back to work...then i can claim the maintainance...

Sorry if i did not word my original post properly.

shell_542

Ah apologies, I misread.

In that case ... going to the CSA. He might stop paying the mortgage or at least all of it and then you'll only get £20 a week from him. Would you be better off?

Bellio

Course not, however, you can always screw him when you get a job

shiprob195

Bellio wrote: »

Course not, however, you can always screw him when you get a job

Ooooooh I wont be screwing him...I will be giving him a very large amount of money £37000.In feb 2010. And he will helping me to put a roof over his kids heads and food on the table, by paying £200 ish out of his wages.

Thank you for all your comments