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*Hump Day* Wed 18th Nov **HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOOKIE!!
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ok, I've sulked, fretted and fumed about the work situation and have just sent the following:
"I've decided I'll not come out on this night out... I don't want to watch what I say in case it's misinterpreted and offence is taken (when none is intended) and resentment built from a misinterpreted comment. Especially as I'll not be there on the Monday for the post mortem where comments/actions that have caused offence are likely to be dissected and analysed for any subtexts and hidden meanings and so I cannot discredit or dispell any inferred offence.
That said, I hope you all have a lovely meal/ time out together and I am looking forward to being back at work in Febraury and seeing you all then."
Subtle enough?
Toto, I cannot believe little Lily is one tomorrow! Where the heck has the time gone???DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
never attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
the thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*
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Oh cat I am sorry you are having stuff at work when you aren't even back till feb!!
flipping pain in the !!!!.
Today was ok, work was busy and I did get a little stressed but I am reading a book about worrying and tried one of the ideas.
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Strategies for coping with stress... tell me more. Please???DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debtnever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
the thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*
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What you reading Buffy?I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
I am so wound up Im sometimes feel Im just going to go pop!I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
My eyes are so scratchy... think I'm going to go to bed and say goodbye to this horrid, horrid day. Night night all.
Cat.xDFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debtnever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
the thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*
March GC £113.53 / £3250 -
Night cat x
Hope that you sleep well.
Im off too.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.0 -
You are going to laugh
but its this one
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Worrying-Start-Living-Personal-development/dp/0749307234/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1258582372&sr=8-1
So far it has told me to think about the problem, work out what is the worst thing that can happen, can you cope with that? (ie for me I would lose my job, opportnity of a new start, freedom from the pressure and politics for a while) Yes I can cope with that. So now I know that I can stop worrying, and do stuff I need to do to make today better.
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- It doesn't work for all worries but has taken the pressure off. and it was a bit less simplistic then what I wrote. night all xxxNevertheless she persisted.0 -
Cat ((hugs)) hunny, I am sorry you aere having such a time of it x
Beanie-have a good sleep xxEmpty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale0
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