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*Ey up its Thursday Chat Thread*10th November 2009

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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Evening all. :D

    Sal, thanks for thinking of me and DS earlier hun :kisses3:
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • cat4772
    cat4772 Posts: 2,467 Forumite
    Whinge alert....

    four years ago my academic boss left the department and since then I've been without a specific academic fighting first for me - there's been four who have probably fought for me second in their priorities and I've felt this has put me at a disadvantage (certainly in the pay and progression stakes). It's taken seven months of maternity leave to fully work this out!

    Uni-funding is looking dodgy and cutbacks are likely but I'm not feeling inclined to go back to it. I phoned my old senior lecturer and discussed that cutbacks are likely and that jobs in my year are likely to be reviewed but that some new opportunities are in the pipeline (these won't be advertised, more people will be suggested for the roles), but others are already earmarking me for their own support needs and this might not be in my best interest.

    I want to be in charge of my own destiny (ok career) rather than be at the mercy of other people who haven't put my needs first.

    So tomorrow I'm going in for a management meeting and then I'm going to speak with a "mover and shaker" to talk things through (find out about these new opportunities and make sure he knows to consider me for them)!
    DFW Nerd Club #545 Dealing With Our Debt
    :onever attribute anything to malice which can be adequately explained by stupidity, [paranoia or ignorance] - ZTD&[cat]
    :othe thing about unwritten laws is that everyone has to agree to them before they can work - *louise*

    March GC £113.53 / £325
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    you are welcome Spud
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Good for you Cat, its so hard when you are off on Mat leave because I found that basically you may aswell not work there and feel totally out the loop. You stand up and sing your praises because no-one else is going to do it...go girl!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Sal - Cherry Garcia is faaaaaaab!:D
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Sal - Cherry Garcia is faaaaaaab!:D


    :j:j I might sneak some into the trolley ;)
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    i have been reduced to watching celebrity wwf on freeview 21!

    There is an off button you know...

    And are you watching pandas (WWF) or men in tights (WWE)?
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    Tenmah, i lost 4 1/2 stone - it took me about 2 yrs - and in i put it all back on in about 18mths-2 yrs!. i stopped going to SW for about 3 yrs and only recently started again. i feel you have to be in the right frame of mind to do it. Go to the class, get weighed, then see if you feel like - right, enough piddlearsing about, i'm gonna do it! or if you feel ' i don't feel like it's the right time' - then stop. You can return when you are
    ready.

    Thanks Scaredy - well as I thought I had put on. It was a pound and to be honest I was expecting more! You are right, I have to totally be 'in the zone' and when I am, I am really focussed, but I just have to get there first.

    I have paid for a countdown, so still have a couple of weeks to go on that and I am hoping I will find my way again soon!
    OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j

    Everytime I hear the 'dirty' word Exercise, I wash my mouth out with chocolate!
  • Lucifa73 wrote: »
    There is an off button you know...

    And are you watching pandas (WWF) or men in tights (WWE)?
    :rotfl: men in tights WWE.... :rotfl:
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
    DFW Long Hauler Supporter No 150


  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    sallyx wrote: »
    :j:j I might sneak some into the trolley ;)
    £1.90 in mr Ms
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


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