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OberonSH's DFW Diary Thread - 1 Woman, 1 Toddler & A Whole Lotta Debt!

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  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    i used to get the jehova's at my door as well it happened for about a month every few days different people every time getting more and more anxy by each visit and trying to tell me how wrong i was ...they never did win that arguement and eventaully gave up before me ...i miss them some days ...sigh


    i like discussing differing beliefs but it has to be a mutual respecting discussion not a slanging match ...they went for slanging i tore them to shreds ...oh well just waiting for the mormons now ...now them i really can get my teeth into *manic laughter ensuing* har har har
  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    Ll, I had a couple of lovely Mormons the other day, a German lad, and a young guy from Utah. Told them I'd be interested in finding out more, but made it clear I was happy in my path. They even offered to come over help with any little jobs I needed doing!! Quite sweet, but never came back....it comes to something when even Moromns don't come back...

    I wonder why they all seem so miserable though? I mean, it's a cruel god who says you can't be a follower AND show a bit of happiness now and again.
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

    Current Pay Off Target : £1500 :mad:
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    mormons arnt too bad to be honest ...i just like chatting to them i was raised a mormon and i know why i dont want to be one so when they come on visiting i like to tell them why lol......some people do take religon seriously dont they
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    They have to take it seriously. Otherwise they'd go to Hell and die...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • OberonSH
    OberonSH Posts: 1,792 Forumite
    PMSL @ go to hell & die

    I can't imagine getting so het up over something that may or may not be complete rubbish! They were nice lads, I was interested to see what differences there were me being raised a Roman Catholic (you want misery & hellfire? You're in the right place!). Think I went for Pagan as it's pretty much pick-n-mix. Trouble is they got me on the day I after a very good psychic friend of mine passed on......Not a good day t ask me about mysticism or spiritualism....
    This year I'm getting organised once and for all, and going to buy a house with my wonderful other half. And that' s final!

    Current Pay Off Target : £1500 :mad:
  • elantan
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    i have to admit i lean more towards the taoist shamanic approach myself ...cant find one belief that exactly fits me ...so i like to take bits and pieces from all religons and beliefs ...but i would say those two are kinda close lol ...sounds like i go to asda and mix and match dont it .....no off the shelf religon for elantan oh no she has to be different
  • MrsTinks
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    LOL course you can have some sangria - plenty in the bottle!

    As for Jehova's... my dad once married one (think it was wife number 3 of 5...) and oh boy was she a barrel of laughs... (sarcasm in case you hadn't guessed...) I'm pagan too and follow my own path and now I LOVE when they coem knocking on my door - tit for tat I say - they can have 10 minutes of my time IF I can have 10 minutes of their time to tell them about my faith... fair right? hehehehehe
    I once had a very good debate with a local minister (you know... a normal one) who was to his credit taking the time to go out and meet people in his parish - and I was digging my front flowerbed and welcomed the distraction. We had a really nice chat and in the end mutually agreed to disagree about things.
    I think my favourite part was near the end when he asked if I'd at least agree that with less people believing in God or religion that the world was a worse place. And I replied that no I didn't think so... religious wars aside - when Adam and Eve had 2 sons, one killed the other - that knocked out 25% of the worlds population - even atomic bombs NOW can't do that in ONE strike.

    Was a good debate have to say :)
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    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    They have to take it seriously. Otherwise they'd go to Hell and die...



    i remember being told i was going to hell when i was younger by my mum ...took me years to deal with that stuff lol
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    elantan wrote: »
    i remember being told i was going to hell when i was younger by my mum ...took me years to deal with that stuff lol

    Exact same story here. She told me I was going to hell, and I went, and it took years to get out.

    I suppose school is like that for most people.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • elantan
    elantan Posts: 21,022 Forumite
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    i honestly do love you z ....
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