Trying For a Baby part 4

moneysaver12

Hi everyone, i am now 9 days past ov, on day 26 of my cycle, and today i checked my discharge and its white and stretchy, what does this mean. Also i did a test yesterday (know i should have waited( and it was a bfn. No more tests in house now, so can't be tempted to test. Also my cervix is high and very soft.

Sammy_Girl

Good Aternoon All,

(((((Hugs))))) to Penny, hope you start to feel better soon.

MS12 - Oooh, I don't know. I guess it's too late to be EWCM as you OV'd 9 days ago. Where has the confused smiley gone?? How long are your cycles normally? Bah humbug to the BFN


Hope everyone is having a nice and relaxing Sunday? I don't know what to do today. Already been to church and walked the dog, and had a good tidy up yesterday. I do feel slightly guilty as I went to Bluewater yesterday (hadn't been in ages!!!!!) and spent an obscene amount on a kitchen bin But I did use some gift vouchers left over from the wedding - and it is such a beautiful bin I'm proper getting into housewife mode now lol

AF due in about a week - so I hope I have a super short cycle this month so I get cracking with TTC next cycle :T

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

moneysaver12

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

Good Aternoon All,

(((((Hugs))))) to Penny, hope you start to feel better soon.

MS12 - Oooh, I don't know. I guess it's too late to be EWCM as you OV'd 9 days ago. Where has the confused smiley gone?? How long are your cycles normally? Bah humbug to the BFN


Hope everyone is having a nice and relaxing Sunday? I don't know what to do today. Already been to church and walked the dog, and had a good tidy up yesterday. I do feel slightly guilty as I went to Bluewater yesterday (hadn't been in ages!!!!!) and spent an obscene amount on a kitchen bin But I did use some gift vouchers left over from the wedding - and it is such a beautiful bin I'm proper getting into housewife mode now lol

AF due in about a week - so I hope I have a super short cycle this month so I get cracking with TTC next cycle :T

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

It has been anything from 28 days to 32 days. I think this month it will be 31 days as ov on day 17.

Sammy_Girl

MS12 - Have you had any other symptons? Im afraid I dont normally check my CM after ov. Im always on the look out for EWCM before ov, but not after! Maybe try and hold out and not test til you're on CD31? Sending loads of positive vibes your way

moneysaver12

Sammy_Girl wrote: »

MS12 - Have you had any other symptons? Im afraid I dont normally check my CM after ov. Im always on the look out for EWCM before ov, but not after! Maybe try and hold out and not test til you're on CD31? Sending loads of positive vibes your way

Only other thing i have had is sore nipples since day 18. I am not going to get anymore tests till day 31. At the mo i have told myself im not pregnant. Its starting to drive me mad each month, during 2ww i keep wishing the days away and hoping and then getting disappointed.

moneysaver12

What kind of bin did you get

Sammy_Girl

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Only other thing i have had is sore nipples since day 18. I am not going to get anymore tests till day 31. At the mo i have told myself im not pregnant. Its starting to drive me mad each month, during 2ww i keep wishing the days away and hoping and then getting disappointed.

I know what you mean - its so disheartening. You try really hard and you really try not to build your hopes up, and you get really peed off when AF comes. Basically, it sucks! Ive never wished the weeks away so much as when I've been ttc'ing. It's so hard to think of anything else!

My bin's lush!! - It's a simplehuman one, all decked out in cream and fingerprint proof stainless steel. And it's dog proof - which is a huge help! Oh well, it's something else to take my mind off TTC

portsmouthali

Penny35 wrote: »

I have never been down about anything before so finding this really tough, to the point I am not sure I can try again for a ickle baby as not sure I am strong enough to go through this. But hey ho thats for me to deal with.

Penny I'm feeling exactly the same at the moment. I've been through this twice in the last 3 months, and if (it's a big if!) we do try again I know I'm going to be utterly terrified of it happening again. I'm not sure if I can do it, but as a very good friend pointed out to me the other day I'm probably not in the best frame of mind to make such a big decision right now I'm fed up with the bleeding as well, it's like a vile reminder every time you go to the loo :mad:

Hope it ends for you soon, it really does get easier once the bleeding stops, and I know it's a cliche but time helps to heal as well. ((((hugs)))) to you xxxxx

QQuaver

Moneysaver, I sometimes get ewcm just before AF too:o

LilDevil

Afternoon all, not a lot to report here, AF seems to have finally bu&&ered off (only been here 9 days :eek:), so onwards and upwards. DH is off his anti depressants and seems to have got his mojo back a bit now :T so hopefully it's all systems go in the LilDevil household!

Congrats Rach, please don't feel guilty about oly being here for a short while, we're still really pleased for you!

PortsmouthAli, nice as it is to see you again, I'm sorry that it's for all the wrong reasons, but you seem to be dealing with things very well so far, don't forget, we're all here if you need to talk.

Penny, I'm sorry you're still having such a time of it, I'm sure once you're able to pick yourself up and dust yourself off, you'll be in a better place to make a decision about continuing the TTC journey. How are you getting on with your knitting?

Fuzz, it's nice to see you back and full of PMA!

If I've forgotten anyone, I'm sorry, there's been so much to catch up on!