Trying For a Baby part 4

beckyandjack

lauralou

i would prob do a test before just so i knew, but wouldn't worry about it too much, i had a 2 repeat smears and then a colposcopy when only a few months with ds as they found some abnormal cells and they said that was fine, and he turned out ok! (no scrapy marks on his head anyway!!!)

xx

kitkat5566

Courgette wrote: »

Well, AF is officially late now so I guess that's hurdle number 1 successfully managed . Am sleeping really badly, I find myself waking up and worrying about stuff. This has only been since my BFP, at first it was daft stuff like worrying because I'd forgotten to take the bread out of the freezer but last night I was convinced I was bleeding to the point that it was an act of courage to get up and go to the loo (I'm not, thankfully). We break up from school on Friday, just cannot wait, sooooooo tired now. I need a bit of time to get my head around being pg too, I still daren't be happy . I'm already really bloated too which is just ridiculous, and my boobs are noticably bigger and hurt if I move too quickly.

Sticky dust, ladies :cool:

I am totally with you on this one Courgette, I am sleeping terribly, keep worrying to death I am guna MC, I keep panicking that I am bleeding (when I am also not) and keep worrying so much about food/ drink that I had before I realised I was pregnant. I was so scared last nite as at the weekend I had a long soak in the bath, then read last night it wasnt a good idea :rolleyes::question: I am also feeling tired 24/7, I dont sleep, wake up late, am late for work, then wen I get home I have to have a nap :P I am also really bloated, I went out to a Xmas Party fri night and I looked about 8 months gone I had to try keep my belly in with a pair of high waist leggings underneath my jeans! My boobs hurt so much, I can only fit into a bikini top I bought that was too big, so I keep wearing that and washing it every night so I cant wear it next day!

Gota go tell my dad tomorrow, wish me luck!! xxxx

Lauralou

Thanks b&j, hope you are ok, still in shock?
courgette and kitkat STOP worrying! hope you are both ok as well:D

beckyandjack

i'm mainly terrified of mc again, but then try and tell myself 3rd time lucky! if i make it to eight weeks am gonna go for a scan, private if dr won't do it as don't think i'll relax till i see a heartbeat. So different to when i had ds as then i was so blase about everything.

xx

elliebobs

Evening ladies; some not so good (but expected) news; I had my 3rd scan today and it has definately been confirmed that I have miscarried. I'm actually doing ok-ish as I was expecting this two weeks ago when I had my first scan. I've opted for the tablets rather than an ERPC so have to go back on Friday to complete the process. It's not going to be pretty and I'm not looking forward to it by any stretch of the imagination but at least I know now so can start to move on.

To those with BFP's; many many congratulations and please please please keep posting; we need good news.

To those worrying; It's pointless telling you not to but I can confirm that everything here is still crossed for you. xx

I don't want to bring the thread down and I honestly am doing ok; I've had two weeks to come to terms with it now.

Ellie x

jacobsmum

hi evry1 how are you all? congrats to all the bfps and tfps!!!
i have a question...
i have been using ov sticks this month for the 1st time and havent really been getting much of a line n just done 1 and got a line thats a bit darker could this mean im oving? have been getting cramps today aswell.
would any1 like a cadbury hero before i eat them all (not the fudge tho there MINE!!!)
XX

beckyandjack

hope you feel better for being out of limbo elliebobs, sending you lots and lots of hugs xxx

jacobsmum

BIG HUGS to elliebobs

xxx

Lauralou

BIG HUGS ellie, glad your are feelling ok-ish, remember we are hear.

b&j i would def go to the doctors and ask for an early scan, if thats what you want, when i went for my hospital appointment the doctor said to make an appointment to have an 6week scan and i've had two mc's as well.

moneysaver12

Hugs ellibob. This two weeks waiting is hard. On day 19 of my cycle now. Another ten days till my af is due. When is the earlist i can test.