MSE Pregnancy Club 17

kindofagilr

Iheartfreebies wrote: »

kindof - I have one if you want it?

elasti - how strange! I have no idea where your bump has gone!

Congrats to the new mummies, welcome to the newbies and hugs to those in need. I have been keeping up but my memory is like a sieve so can't name check everyone I'm afraid

Thanks so much

EA - No I Havent got it yet, I ordered it the other day when we were talking about it

(((HUGS))) NIkkit xxx

nikkit72

hes gone out now, kids home from school. i dont know what to do , no i havent qn him about facebook , what if m right there is something going on , i think maybe thats why i feel like this coz i want to end it b4 i get cheated on

gymfiend

((hugs)) nikkit, so sorry, not really sure what to suggest, do you think it's just frustration/hormones, i.e. will be better after baby? or more serious? Can you talk to him about your worries?

GISI, might you please go into labour and have baby today just for me, so I can tell OH that dime cake is the way to go?

EA bouncer chair sounds like a bargain Not started a birth plan yet - hoping to talk to midwife about it all at 25 week appointment...not really sure what I want at the mo though, must start researching soon.

Fattybooboo can I ask why you want the cord pulsing as long as poss? Sorry if it's a really stupid Q but I've not seen it mentioned anywhere before (shows I've not been reading!!)

Wow Elasti, where's your bump gone!! Maybe I stole it, mine's massive now? The snowsuit is gorgeous, gonna go hunt for the La Redoute code now!

Well I'm back after a lovely day with OH - went to Nando's for lunch, yum, and went up to Otley which is like a little market town for a walk & to buy sweets from a little traditional sweet shop (easily pleased or what!). Also picked up some bits for baby from the charity shop, OH deeply hates them but I like to rummage Was v funny watching OH turn up his nose at everything I picked out, then asking me if I planned to wash them before dressing our son in them :rotfl: silly man! They all look brand new too, like the wash labels have never been through a wash

Off to OH's dads tonight (the less disliked of the IL's :rotfl:) - hopefully that'll be painless and quick. I'm so lazy, they live like 45 minutes away and we only got a few times a year, and I can't bear the thought of an hour & a half in the car this evening at the mo!

Oooh forgot I wanted to ask - have any of you had like pins and needles in your hands, endlessly? It started in my left hand a couple of days ago and isn't going, dunno what it could be..

lou66_2

nikkit72 wrote: »

hes gone out now, kids home from school. i dont know what to do , no i havent qn him about facebook , what if m right there is something going on , i think maybe thats why i feel like this coz i want to end it b4 i get cheated on

Sweetheart just my opinion but would you rather not just say it and find out rather your mind going around and around at 20 to the dozen, you can prepare your self for the answer.I know it's easier said than done but sometimes our minds can play some horrible tricks on us and the truth is often not as bad as we think it will be and we end up torturing ourselfs and then find out the truth was not as half as bad as we thought it was going to be !!! If it helps i find writing things down as and when you feel like it so you have points etc to bring up. We are all here for you or call a mate for a chat, but please dont keep it all bottled in and go mad inside big big hugs and let us know xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nikkit72

god , i'm a chicken have just text him everything , and told him how i feel and how i dont think this can work as i really feel like i dont trust himm anymore.

nikkit72

aagin , i have lost contact with all my friends especially since all my kids went up to high school i dont see my friends at the sch gates anymore , i feel so alone , i did text afriend but she always says she busy , maybe she is maybe she isnt i really dont know, i have no sisters or brothers to talk to either

Evansangel

gymfiend wrote: »

Oooh forgot I wanted to ask - have any of you had like pins and needles in your hands, endlessly? It started in my left hand a couple of days ago and isn't going, dunno what it could be..

I've had a constant tingling kind of feeling in my hands and fingers, i read it might be carpel tunnel sydrome. Caused by eccessive typing lol. I typed pretty much all day every day haha.
I just ignore it now

Evansangel

nikkit72 wrote: »

aagin , i have lost contact with all my friends especially since all my kids went up to high school i dont see my friends at the sch gates anymore , i feel so alone , i did text afriend but she always says she busy , maybe she is maybe she isnt i really dont know, i have no sisters or brothers to talk to either

We're always here for a little rant or just for someone to talk to. I know its not the same but we're here for you

I do the text thing to, i find it easier then saying how i feel out loud. Or i write it in a letter.

Has he replied?

nikkit72

he just text back and said , fck off stop the fkin paranoia

nikkit72

i said , no , you know where the door is if you cant take it !!! , im balling just typing it , but to be honest it feels a bit of a relief getting it off my chest
well lets see if he comes home