Stuck in the middle advise please

cozza123

Well to keep it short my parents won't let my boyfriend in the house they got on really well until a situation that they have now decided that they won't let him in. I now feel that I'm stuck in the middle between a boyfriend I don't believe has done no wrong and my parents that I get on or at least did.

I currently live at home but am soon wanting to move out. Should I still be with my boyfriend even tho my parents now disapprove of him. Iam just so stressed out because of this and don't know where to turn as I wanted the whole package with this man kids, house, marriage etc one day now I don't know what to do please Help

jackomdj

Without knowing your parents reasoning I would not be able to say.

I know of people who do not get on with the in laws & their relationships work. But I also know people whose relationships have failed due to issues with parents.

No real help but did not want to read & run

McKneff

jackomdj wrote: »

Without knowing your parents reasoning I would not be able to say.

I know of people who do not get on with the in laws & their relationships work. But I also know people whose relationships have failed due to issues with parents.

No real help but did not want to read & run

same goes for me too. Depends on parents, parents have different attitudes.

my daughters partner stays over sometime and stays with her (they are both in their 30s. when she goes to his parents house, they sleep in sep.
bedrooms. Parents attitudes differ, not wrongly, just differ. So if you want to explain the circumestnces.................

DVardysShadow

How old are you and what did bf do?

Pollycat

It seems strange (at least to me) that your parents were OK with your boyfriend until 'a situation' but you say your boyfriend hasn't done anything wrong.

From what you've said, your parents certainly think so.

Either he did something to upset them or he didn't.
What was this 'situation' that you mention?

Have you discussed this with your parents?

McKneff

You arent elaborating on the 'situation' so think about it yourself.

Then ask yourself do you blame them.

You need to sit down with them and talk about it to sort out a solution.

Morglin

It's their house and their rules - get a flat.

Lin

Chippy_Minton_2

master_of_nothing wrote: »

grow up and move out

I don't think you are the best person to comment on this thread.

Check this out.:rotfl:

Pollycat

Chippy_Minton wrote: »

I don't think you are the best person to comment on this thread.

Check this out.:rotfl:

To be honest, Chippy, I don't think he's the best person to comment on ANY thread. :rolleyes:

Chippy_Minton_2

Pollycat wrote: »

To be honest, Chippy, I don't think he's the best person to comment on ANY thread. :rolleyes:

I can’t disagree with you on that.:beer: