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Parents buying me a house......

geordie_ben
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Me and my parents are looking into them selling our current family home and lending me some/all of the money to buy myself a house
If I borrwed most of the money they would move into rented accom
I would then pay my parents back instead of getting a mortgage
We've only literally just started thinking about it and are unsure of the options available
We've thought some of the options could be
What are the pro's and con's
Anyone know the legal side?
I have an older sister and obviously my parents aren't getting any younger so we'd also need to think of what would need to happen when they pass away, or if i passed away before the money was fully paid back
Any help would be great!!
If I borrwed most of the money they would move into rented accom
I would then pay my parents back instead of getting a mortgage
We've only literally just started thinking about it and are unsure of the options available
We've thought some of the options could be
- Lending the money until it was all paid back (£100,000 in 12 years)
- Lending the money for 2 or 3 years, paying off as much as possible, then getting a mortgage when they wanted the money back
- Lending the money to buy myself a house, then when they wanted to buy again, i would take the mortgage out and they would like in the 2nd house
- Lending a smaller amount of money as a deposit and getting a mortgage myself
What are the pro's and con's
Anyone know the legal side?
I have an older sister and obviously my parents aren't getting any younger so we'd also need to think of what would need to happen when they pass away, or if i passed away before the money was fully paid back
Any help would be great!!
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Are you the only reason they want to sell? If so then wouldn't it be cheaper and easier for them to remortgage their property and lend you the money? And you would take out a mortgage for the outstanding amount?
Selling a family home is a big loss. It must be full of happy memories for all of your family, the place you want to be able to come to no matter what. I am surprised your parents are comfortable with what you are suggesting. And do YOU really want to come to some strange rental place to see your parents instead of the home where you grew up?0 -
£700 a month will see the £100k paid back in 12 years.
If you start getting a mortgage co involved, you will pay through the nose.Starting Debt: ~£20,000 01/01/2009. DFD: 20/11/2009 :j
Do something amazing. GIVE BLOOD.0 -
My parents are wanting to move anyway.
In a 5% savings account it would take 12 years and 10 months to pay back £100,000 paying £500 a month into it
Any tips or advice anyone?0 -
Forgive me, but I'm struggling to see where your parents benefit from the arrangement at all?
I love my kids but selling my own home to move into rented to lend them the money, interest free, to buy their own place?Everything that is supposed to be in heaven is already here on earth.
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Who will pay their rent?
Is there any outstanding mortgage on the house currently?
Why not ove into the family home and they move into rental. Isn't that the easiest thing to do?
HTH.Tough times never last longer than tough people.0 -
Doozergirl I appreciate your comment but I think it is stemming away from my main thread.....0
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Whats your sister's view on this ....... ???0
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I would be paying their rent plus more to be paying the money back
When I come to move out in around 18 months the house will be fully paid off and mortgage free
We have lived in the house all our lives and all wish to move to different places, my parents included0 -
picardygirl wrote: »Whats your sister's view on this ....... ???
As of yet she doesnt know we have even thought of this, I wanted to get clued up on all the pro's and con's before confusing everyone0 -
geordie_ben wrote: »As of yet she doesnt know we have even thought of this, I wanted to get clued up on all the pro's and con's before confusing everyone
Is she a homeowner with a mortgage?0
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