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Just wanting to vent!!!

Hi! Sorry, I just need to vent a bit as I'm so annoyed! :mad: I sold a voucher last Friday on ebay. I wasn't looking to make a profit (sold it for 1p!), I just wanted someone else to be able to take advantage of the voucher as I couldn't. It has to be used by 18th so I was ready to post it first class as soon as I received payment.

I emailed the buyer yesterday morning and just received a resonse: 'Hi there, really sorry I wont be able to use it by the 18th! So its not worth you posting it. Hope you sell it on quickly to someone else.'

Grrrr!!! She has a feedback of 25 and has sold items (has quite a few on at the minute) so she SHOULD know how ebay works. I'm not annoyed about the money (as there is none! :rotfl:), I'm just annoyed that someone could bid for a voucher with a use by date and then not let me know until 5 days later that she doesn't want it. :confused:

"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." Marilyn Monroe

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  • mrcol1000
    mrcol1000 Posts: 4,797 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Hi! Sorry, I just need to vent a bit as I'm so annoyed! :mad: I sold a voucher last Friday on ebay. I wasn't looking to make a profit (sold it for 1p!), I just wanted someone else to be able to take advantage of the voucher as I couldn't. It has to be used by 18th so I was ready to post it first class as soon as I received payment.

    I emailed the buyer yesterday morning and just received a resonse: 'Hi there, really sorry I wont be able to use it by the 18th! So its not worth you posting it. Hope you sell it on quickly to someone else.'

    Grrrr!!! She has a feedback of 25 and has sold items (has quite a few on at the minute) so she SHOULD know how ebay works. I'm not annoyed about the money (as there is none! :rotfl:), I'm just annoyed that someone could bid for a voucher with a use by date and then not let me know until 5 days later that she doesn't want it. :confused:


    Report her and get her a non paid strike. Hopefully she will think about it next time.
  • Hintza
    Hintza Posts: 19,420 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    And leave a neg this time....:confused:
  • But I can't leave a neg, can I? :confused:

    Weird that she has sold a number of things but thinks it's ok to just decide 5 days after an auction closes that she doesn't want the item. I doubt she would be so relaxed with HER buyers....
    "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." Marilyn Monroe
  • mrcol1000
    mrcol1000 Posts: 4,797 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    But I can't leave a neg, can I? :confused:

    Weird that she has sold a number of things but thinks it's ok to just decide 5 days after an auction closes that she doesn't want the item. I doubt she would be so relaxed with HER buyers....


    No you can't. If you leave a postive with a negative remark it will be pulled. If you buy something from her to leave a negative that will also get you in trouble. The nonpaid strike is all you can do but if she gets enough of them it can cause her problems.
    I would also block her just in case she decides to buy from you again.
  • bylromarha
    bylromarha Posts: 10,085 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Oooh, I need to vent too.

    Sold something over the weekend. Sent tracking number to buyer's paypal email address on Monday.

    Get a stroppy email last night at 9.30pm and again this morning at 11am saying he hasn't heard from me.

    Sorry for not being glued to the internet!!!! And I sent a message on Monday.

    Was equally blunt in my response and not really bothered if he marks down the DSRs as it's personal account and rarely sell. But certainly rude! Why do people think they can behave like this for no reason. grrrrr
    Who made hogs and dogs and frogs?
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