We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Renting and domestic violence

Good Morning all,

My sister is in a violent relationship, and she's trying to get out. However, complications include a 4 month old baby and the fact she cannot leave without telling her partner where she's going and who with. If she leaves without telling him, he's threatened to hurt the family.

My question is, they are in private rented accommodation, they have been there for a year so legally a months notice would be required. Would she be able to pay up and give notice to leave but leave him there?? Could she leave on domestic violence grounds? I've tried trawling the net but i'm finding nothing, she's worried about getting in trouble with the landlady and letting agent but surely if she's trying to remove herself from harm she's entitled to leave asap? There must be loopholes?

Help!
«1

Comments

  • N79
    N79 Posts: 2,615 Forumite
    Key question.

    Is your sister named on the tenancy agreement? There are two very different scenarios riding on the answer.
  • Yes they are both named tenants...
  • Leave him their to deal with the Land lady, grab the baby, and get out.

    If her or the baby are going to get hurt from this man, a bit of bother from the land lady is the least of her worries.

    You could try refuge for further information.

    Hope she can get out soon x
    I am pleased to give hairdressing help or advice, but a thank you doesn't go a miss.
    :D
  • theGrinch
    theGrinch Posts: 3,133 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    sorry to hear that. has she spoken with citizens advice?
    "enough is a feast"...old Buddist proverb
  • She can't speak to anyone, the only way I know is because she emails me from a private email address that he doesn't know about. She can't get out or use the phone...
  • deedee71
    deedee71 Posts: 918 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Name Dropper
    hannah9000 wrote: »
    She can't speak to anyone, the only way I know is because she emails me from a private email address that he doesn't know about. She can't get out or use the phone...


    For gods sake go and get her out of there now :eek:

    Money, bad references etc....who cares.....

    Get her and baby out and contact Refuge......TODAY
  • matmad
    matmad Posts: 50 Forumite
    Speaking from personal experience, she needs to get out as soon as she gets the opportunity. Her safety and that of the baby are the most important things.

    He will probably be enraged by her leaving, and by being left to answer to the landlady on his own.

    Best if she is able to go to an address he can't track her down to, preferably out of the area, and for her not to soften at any point and get in touch with him.

    Get in touch with Refuge (as has been said), and get as much help and advice as possible.

    If he is threatening her family also, get the police involved. Apparently they are much more helpful than they used to be in my day.

    In summary, it's possibly a bummer for the landlady, but that is the least of her worries.
  • N79
    N79 Posts: 2,615 Forumite
    edited 14 October 2009 at 9:11AM
    I'm not going to deal with the issue of domestic violence - I am only going to comment on the tenancy related questions.

    Then she is jointly liable for the tenancy. As a joint tenant she can give 1 months notice to end the tenancy. Her liability for rent would remain until the tenancy is terminated although arguably she could sue her partner for any rent she has to pay after she moves out.

    There are no changes to the way a tenancy is ended due to relationship breakup. A tenant still retains all their obligations.

    Most reasonable (human) LLs will be sympathetic to genuine cases but be aware that many people play this card to try to avoid meeting their obligations and to get out of "inconvenient" tenancies and so a LL might intially view such claims with suspicion.
  • Jowo_2
    Jowo_2 Posts: 8,308 Forumite
    edited 14 October 2009 at 9:15AM
    "Could she leave on domestic violence grounds"

    There are no personal circumstances which make it valid grounds for a tenant to surrender the tenancy unless the landlord consents to it. Suggest she speaks to the landlord to inform them of her situation, the police for the violence and Shelter for her housing rights and potential homelessness.

    http://england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice/families_and_relationships/domestic_violence

    "they have been there for a year so legally a months notice would be required"

    Are you saying that the initial one year fixed term tenancy agreement has lapsed and it is now a periodic tenancy? Your sister should check this is the case and be aware that 1 months notice can't be given at any point but must be timed to expire with the next rental period - the notice ends on the first or last day of the period of a tenancy - "if your tenancy is monthly and started on the fifth day of the month, the notice you give the landlord should end on the fourth or the fifth."

    If she has a fixed term contract, it cannot be surrendered early unless there is a break clause or landlord consents to it.

    http://england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice/renting_and_leasehold/ending_a_tenancy_or_licence

    "Would she be able to pay up and give notice to leave but leave him there..they are both named tenants??"

    If a joint tenant legitimately serves notice or the landlord agrees to accept early notice, then the tenancy ends for all and it is up to the remaining tenant to negotiate with the landlord to remain in the property. The joint and several liability that comes from a jointly signed AST means that it is irrelevant to the landlord who is responsible for arrears/damage as either or both tenants must pay. Therefore it is important that your sister doesn't get into the position where she is responsible for paying rent when she no longer lives there, particularly if the abusive partner stops paying the rent when she is still jointly responsible. The first link on domestic violence gives info on how to get the perpetrator out, etc.
    http://england.shelter.org.uk/get_advice/renting_and_leasehold/renting_agreements#6
  • We're not worried about his threats to the family, he knows he'd be messing with some serious people so i'm not sure he'd follow through with that. The thing is, she's weak, and whilst she's said to us she wants out and she hates him, i'm not sure if she'd protest if we bustled in army stylee to get her! Because she's dependant on him now.
    I live an hour away from her and he has no idea where my house is, I have offered her my place to stay.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.3K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 601K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.