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  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    missstropy wrote: »
    My knob head partner refuses to even show me his wage slips never mind cough up any money, he just started a new job, and i know he had two weeks training but in 4 weeks he gets paid weekly hes not give me a penny for food or bills or anything, given that before he moved in with me legally 12 months ago hes had about 5 jobs and been the same every time.
    Before i was a single parent on benefits, unable to get a job as my eldest daughter is severly disabled and im a full time carer for her, I dont mind that im used to my own company by now shes 18 now, but before he came to live with me i never had a debt in my life, and if i needed anything i could go out and get it, now im living with a kitchen with no cupboard doors no carpets no money and hardly any food, im paying a mortgage, gas, electric, phone, tv, food absolutley everything on £190.00 a week, My daughter DLA gets used for food as Im always short, Ive had to cancel her respite as i have to pay for it now as shes 18 to put food on the table, and i dont no what fatty does with all his wages, i see nothing for it, and ive had this out with him so many times and he goes and gets me 30 quid or something and tells me to use it for what i need.
    Rant part 1 over

    Get him out!
    He's an greedy selfish !!!!!! and a waste of space, he's sapping your strength as well as your resources! :mad:
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • missstropy
    missstropy Posts: 7,763 Forumite
    And he never wipes his arshe properly and leaves skids on his side of the bed, and he shaves on the bedroom floor and he doesnt use soap when he has a shower ive checked after and its always dry:o and his idea of cooking tea is boiling himself a tin of soup in the microwave:o and he always telling my kids what they shouldnt be doing, ive had enough i need a trade in, its time for something young and firm:cool:
  • missstropy
    missstropy Posts: 7,763 Forumite
    Get him out!
    He's an greedy selfish !!!!!! and a waste of space, he's sapping your strength as well as your resources! :mad:
    ...Linda xx
    Thats what i was thinking, its making me ill
  • missstropy
    missstropy Posts: 7,763 Forumite
    Ive had to do a dmp and im waitign for the letters to arrive to sign and send out, i wouldnt of had to do this if he had paid his way. Ive always had an excellent credit rating, now its rock bottom, ive got banks ringing up at 8am to catch me at home, stress stress stress.

    I think next time he offers me any money im gona say no its ok you keep that and go and see if you can find somewhere else to live all in for £40 a week
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    missstropy wrote: »
    And he never wipes his arshe properly and leaves skids on his side of the bed, and he shaves on the bedroom floor and he doesnt use soap when he has a shower ive checked after and its always dry:o and his idea of cooking tea is boiling himself a tin of soup in the microwave:o and he always telling my kids what they shouldnt be doing, ive had enough i need a trade in, its time for something young and firm:cool:
    :eek::eek::rotfl::rotfl:Sorry I am speachless for once, and this lot will confirm it is a first:D
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    missstropy wrote: »
    I think next time he offers me any money im gona say no its ok you keep that and go and see if you can find somewhere else to live all in for £40 a week
    :T that sounds like a good idea
  • missstropy
    missstropy Posts: 7,763 Forumite
    :rotfl:
    jacs76 wrote: »
    :eek::eek::rotfl::rotfl:Sorry I am speachless for once, and this lot will confirm it is a first:D
    :rotfl::rotfl:Oh thats not all:rotfl: I usually have a right dig in the arms pub, it was jinky that told me to come over here, she said you were all fab when i was telling her bout me money probs, she said get yourself over to the daily chat they will love you, unfortunatly im not in the best of moods at this exact moment :o but im sure i will get on with you all when im in a better frame of mind:rotfl: yes i do have a sense of humour thats one thing the fat lump cant take of me
  • GunJack
    GunJack Posts: 11,884 Forumite
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    Ey up gang :D

    Has this thread stopped being the "girlies discussing men" thread yet :rotfl: If so, :wave: to everyone ('coz it may be safe to do so :D)
    ......Gettin' There, Wherever There is......

    I have a dodgy "i" key, so ignore spelling errors due to "i" issues, ...I blame Apple :D
  • GunJack
    GunJack Posts: 11,884 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    ...or even the " I hate the caveman" thread :confused::D
    ......Gettin' There, Wherever There is......

    I have a dodgy "i" key, so ignore spelling errors due to "i" issues, ...I blame Apple :D
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    Hell yea!! :beer:
    :money: Joined: 16th Sept 2009, Debt: [STRIKE]£12,960.50[/STRIKE] £11,230.28 :money:
    Current : Halifax CC £6,638.46 | Virgin CC £860.65 | Girlfriend £817.17 | Natwest PL [STRIKE]£12,400[/STRIKE] £2,914
    Student Loan : £15,792.97 (Sep '09)
    :(DFW Date : [strike]Jan 2014[/strike] Oct 2014 :(
    :cool: 'Proud To Be Dealing With My Debts':cool:
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