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Daily Chat Weekend 3/4th October

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  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    oh god, I am a terrible person.............I've found it.....I am so, so sorry and I apologise............I've never reacted like that before.

    I'm now here in tears through relief and the fact Ithought it in the first place.


    Glad its turned up. Its horrible when things like that happen and your mind starts spinning. Just take a deep breath and move on. No real harm done as he doesn't even know he was the villain of the piece.

    Perhaps though (and I hope I'm not out of line) you need to think good and hard about the state of your relationship if your mind can take you there even against your understanding of his personality...

    Oh and definitely chocolate if not a wee glass of port (medicinal you know)
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,944 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Cat addict~Yes there is a new chat thread every day.
    I just keep it open when I am on MSE.

    BB~Have a cxhocolate hob knob~they are just sooo yummy :)

    Luc~How it that wee cutie pie today then?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    Well, for someone that finds making beans on toast taxing I think I have done quite well. Todays tea is cooking, pie mash and veg and tomorrows tea, chilli pork casserole stew thing is in the slow cooker :D
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,944 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Go you then jacs :)
    I am sadly lacking in the cookery department too.
    But I have other talents:rotfl:
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Buffy, I know you've blocked him now but if you want to check who can view your FB profile, hover your mouse over 'settings' (top right, near your name and the search box) but don't click. A little drop down menu appears - click 'privacy settings'. Then click 'profile'.

    From there you can control who can see which bits of your profile. :)
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • jacs76
    jacs76 Posts: 2,140 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Go you then jacs :)
    I am sadly lacking in the cookery department too.
    But I have other talents:rotfl:
    so do I but they are hidden away for 6 mths ;)
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Glad its turned up. Its horrible when things like that happen and your mind starts spinning. Just take a deep breath and move on. No real harm done as he doesn't even know he was the villain of the piece.

    Perhaps though (and I hope I'm not out of line) you need to think good and hard about the state of your relationship if your mind can take you there even against your understanding of his personality...

    Oh and definitely chocolate if not a wee glass of port (medicinal you know)

    That's very rational and wise - I likey. :)
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Cat addict - welcome to the chat! I usually subscribe by posting on it every day.

    BB, glad it turned up.

    I'm pants in the cookery department too - I thought I'd cheer dad up and tempt him to eat with a nice roast dinner. I stuck forks right into the roast beef and they came back clear so I took it out - went back half an hour later to find loads of blood had oozed out of it. The mash got cold cos I forgot to keep it warm till he got home. The gravy was fine, till I put it back in the cooker to keep warm - but forgot to turn the temperature down. The roast taties were fine, and even I can't get frozen veg wrong. So not a great success! He still said it showed I can cook though! My excuse is that I've never used a fan assisted oven before...

    I've finally finished the bloody book. She actually said towards the end that she could understand how some people would be offended by it, those with no money, bad health, bad childhood... and then went on to explain that we shouldn't be, because there's always someone worse off than ourselves and we should be glad for what we've got and get over it. Yeah, right. Oooh, I'm going to have a good debate tomorrow night! Now onto something much more 'me' - GB84 by David Peace, about the miners strike. No middle class frippery there...
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,944 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Blimey.
    Just seen in 'Latest MSE news' on right hand side of page that a womans car insurance only cost her 96p due to cashback.Amazing isent it?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Hiya Cat Addict :wave:

    I don't bother subscribing to be honest because the daily chat rarely drops off the front page so I can always find it easily.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
    9780007258925
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