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Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

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  • Hi everybody,

    I am back.

    Just caught up with the thread, it moves fast.

    We won our badminton match 8-1. Me and dave played really well and won all our games so 3-0 to us. woohooooo.

    Really tired now, and being naughty after all that good work and eating a chinese, as I bloody forgot to get the turkey out of the freezer for my sunday dinner.

    In answer to your question earlier, there are nice men out there, I am one of them. But you girls like bad boys.

    I am a good looking guy who knows how to treat a girl right, but when it comes to the chat up bit I am a bit shy and low on confidence. Once I meet somebody I am fine.

    Money Fritter

    Shy? no i don't think so. I don't like bad boys at all. I like men with hair, i know that sounds awful - sorry.
    I like to treat a man right too. I love going walking and doing relaxing stuff like walking on sundays. I used to go walking on my own by driving up to the lakes on a sunday or go on my bike ride near home.
    Personality, laughter and doing exciting stuff is what I like to share.
    Mortgage Free 2016Work Part Time:DHouse Hunting In France 2023
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Walking :eek: Not in my shoes :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Well I am tall (6ft 3) and dark and handsome. lol

    I use to do a lot of walking in the lakes, use to stay in a cottage over there. Have not been for awhile. Dont quite abit of walking in the yorkshire dales aswell. I use to be a member of the national trust as there is lots up durham way and around northumberland, good days out. But it got too expensive and I had to cancel. lol
    DFW#972 LBM2 (09/07/12) £25938.84; Current £23783.35;
    Credit Credit Card1 £128.47/£6424.24 (2%);
    Credit Card2 £443.86/£15663.25 (2.8%); Overdraft £0/£2500 (0%)
  • Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    Does she mainly live with her Dad? Is she far away?

    (Tell me to mind my own if I'm too nosey :o)

    yes she lives with dad, long story, i was controlled by him, believed i was bad mum when we got divorced without solicitors. he hits women, but not now as his second wife got the better of him, but he s a great dad and she is happy with him and lived with him since she was 3 - she is now 11. Bit of a control freak he is, i was depressed and shy when with him. Took me seven years to get back to being me and so I pay through csa which is easier for me as he was asking for too much.
    I see her every other weekend and holidays off school but can't afford to take her away on my own so its time spent at home.

    ashton hayes near chester is 50 miles away so not that bad.
    Mortgage Free 2016Work Part Time:DHouse Hunting In France 2023
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Could this be out first SAID romance??? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Should I buy a hat? :)
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    OOh a Scouser (faints in excitement!). Trust me I could handle you.
    Interesting that you like hairy men Tracey, the smoother the better for me!
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    shawtj2 wrote: »
    yes she lives with dad, long story, i was controlled by him, believed i was bad mum when we got divorced without solicitors. he hits women, but not now as his second wife got the better of him, but he s a great dad and she is happy with him and lived with him since she was 3 - she is now 11. Bit of a control freak he is, i was depressed and shy when with him. Took me seven years to get back to being me and so I pay through csa which is easier for me as he was asking for too much.
    I see her every other weekend and holidays off school but can't afford to take her away on my own so its time spent at home.

    ashton hayes near chester is 50 miles away so not that bad.

    Glad you have turned your life around - and you sound like a great mum :A
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    And not in my shoes either Shoesy, though am thinking of going to the offie in a bit!
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • Well I am tall (6ft 3) and dark and handsome. lol

    I use to do a lot of walking in the lakes, use to stay in a cottage over there. Have not been for awhile. Dont quite abit of walking in the yorkshire dales aswell. I use to be a member of the national trust as there is lots up durham way and around northumberland, good days out. But it got too expensive and I had to cancel. lol

    I used to stay in cottages in scotland every year on my own for a week, when I could afford it then. I still love scotland. My friend lives in newcastle so i used to travel up there quite often to see her.

    i like tall men.
    Mortgage Free 2016Work Part Time:DHouse Hunting In France 2023
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Souk08 wrote: »
    OOh a Scouser (faints in excitement!). Trust me I could handle you.
    !

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Oh - there is going to be a scrap over MF :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
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