Daily Chat Thursday October 1st - an exciting new month for debtbusting

sallyx

Im sure the lads in the garage will know someone who they can sell it. You could offer them a % cut if they can sell it Sammy, that will encourage them!

ZTD

bank_of_slate wrote: »

How did you meet him Snaggs, and how old are his kids?
Is he still wearing a wedding ring?
...Linda xx

And where is he wearing it?

ZTD

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

Men in their early 40s - it's then their turn to wobble and have the mid-life crisis/find an 18 year old/buy a red Porsche :rolleyes:

Now that sounds like a good idea...

Snaggles

sallyx wrote: »

Snags I honestly think you should just bail out now...and I thought you were having some time off from men !!

I was...but last weekend I sat at home, totally on my own, bored senseless and so lonely it was like a pain in my stomach. I really think I might go mad if I don't go out, meet new people etc.

And it's very difficult to make new female friends - I can't go to any clubs or classes or anything because I have the kids every evening, and running/gym are pretty solitary things, so I'm never going to meet anyone that way.

I'm just not going to get VERY involved with anyone. And I will have to behave for the forseeable in any case as I am still mid-decorating and don't have a proper bedroom, or even a bed...and I can hardly go back to his... :rotfl:

sammy115

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

I think ( being the harbinger of doom here :rotfl:) that the older we get, the more probability of a hassle/baggage/'someone else in the background'-free 'serious' relationship lessens as each year goes by.

I was married with two kids (and living with my ex OH as seperate people) when I met my OH but it was the first thing I told him....not being funny but if he is still living with his wife....steer clear..he has not exactly been up front so far has he.....:cool:

sammy115

Snaggles wrote: »

I was...but last weekend I sat at home, totally on my own, bored senseless and so lonely it was like a pain in my stomach. I really think I might go mad if I don't go out, meet new people etc.

And it's very difficult to make new female friends - I can't go to any clubs or classes or anything because I have the kids every evening, and running/gym are pretty solitary things, so I'm never going to meet anyone that way.

I'm just not going to get VERY involved with anyone. And I will have to behave for the forseeable in any case as I am still mid-decorating and don't have a proper bedroom, or even a bed...and I can hardly go back to his... :rotfl:

Snags...:grouphug: its tough when the kids are so little.....

Snaggles

At least he told me before the date I guess. And no, he doesn't wear a wedding ring.

I'm not convinced there will be any chemistry to be honest anyway, but going out for a drink sounds more appealing than another Saturday night sitting at home on my own.

Burlesque_Babe

sammy115 wrote: »

if he is still living with his wife....steer clear..he has not exactly been up front so far has he.....:cool:

I agree. If he says (or you know) 'I am married, this is nothing more than something on the side', then you know where you stand and it's then a choice of where it goes. Of course, that works both ways, women as well as men can already be with someone, I was still with my ex when I met my OH, but he knew from the start I was with someone. We split 3 months later and lived separately (literally like 2 housemates even down to our own shopping and shared loo roll!!) for another 8 months before I bought my own place.

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

At least he told me before the date I guess. And no, he doesn't wear a wedding ring.

I'm not convinced there will be any chemistry to be honest anyway, but going out for a drink sounds more appealing than another Saturday night sitting at home on my own.

If the only thing you get from this night is a load of laughs then it was worth it.

sallyx

You could always go to church on a sunday..there might be some nice, single and reliable men there snags