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  • usernameisvalid you sound like a politician!

    Paparika... Record all instances of unsocial behaviour, get the council to measure the leves of noise emitted from said chav and report the drug taker to the police!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • tizhimi
    tizhimi Posts: 457 Forumite
    get the council to measure the leves of noise emitted from said chav

    :beer: lol, blumming brilliant! :beer:
    I run an event management company, I put on events, I go to events, if I don't know anything about events - its not worth knowing!
    :j:j:jNegotiate, Negotiate, and Negotiate again.:j:j:j
  • Paparika wrote: »
    I am waiting to be moved somewhere more suited to my needs, and i have already said i didn't want to live under anyone anymore.

    I was wrong to say what i did to her, I am tired and cranky, but she really did wind me up, accusing me of something i was obviously not capable of doing. yet she stood there with her mate, giving me grief and refusing to turn her music down, that is selfish.

    If i had blasting music and someone complained, i'd be mortified and apologise and turn it down.

    usernameisvalid, it happened this morning and i wrote it down whilst i still could remember it.. I did think about writing her a polite note asking her to turn her music down, until she had a go at my door, then thought it best not to do that.

    Paprika, I truely am sympathetic and no way was my post designed in any way to be harsh or nasty.

    I was just trying to show how sometimes when we have preconceived ideas about a person or situation, we behave in a way we wouldn't necessarily do otherwise.

    Im glad you have calmed down somewhat now, raising your stress cant be good for your health

    When we had problems with our neighbour is really was very easy to get drawn into the screaming, shouting, name calling but we resisted and kept calm, kept logs and kept on at the council. Mediation did help and things did settle down up till we moved
  • tizhimi wrote: »
    Anyone doing drugs, playing loud music and comes shouting and screaming at someone's door --- IN MY OPINION --- is a chav. Just have some empathy for the OP as you come across as sitting rather high on that horse of yours.

    So you are allowed your opinion but Im not mine?

    Because my opinion doesnt match yours Im on a high horse?

    Oh please.........
  • usernameisvalid you sound like a politician!

    Paparika... Record all instances of unsocial behaviour, get the council to measure the leves of noise emitted from said chav and report the drug taker to the police!
    ...Linda xx


    If only I had their income - earned or otherwise :D
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