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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5
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I've just put a post on DFW main board enocuraging someone to stop hiding under the sink!

@ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7"NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"0 -
Ok Guys I apologise in advance...............
It started off light hearted, but you all know me when I kinda get reflective :eek: Btw I have had a small amount of red wine. So GG still on 11 hunny. Hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
No Bhb or our lovely Winebox
But fear not as we still have our Dear Fay and her powerful stripey socks
Our adorable Honeybear has bear flu :eek:
And the lovely 40sm is puppy training but doesnt know what to do?
We are all going on Ym's crimbo lights tour
Beware we may just come a knock, knock, knockin on your door :eek:
We have our Dear Lurky making our christmas mince pies
He started our af challenge year, my how the time flies:A
We also have our adorable darling Jo :A
Who is going for the Full Monty and has only 5 days to go :j
She is an inspiration to us all :T
The one to look upto when you feel you are going to fall :A
So this is thanks to GC,RA, Bis, Eselt and Mp too :A
For guiding us all when we felt lost and didn't know what to do
All of you are a very special brick in our wall :cool:
Without the support that you all give, then many of us would certainly fall
Sorry its probably awful but you get the idea?
Hugs to you all and I really mean that, you are such a great bunch and I feel lucky to know you :A
Ok sentiment over .............
Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Ps hugs Honey Bear and sorry to hear about your Dear Mum, well done on being so lovely and sending the flowers :A She will be thrilled. Bear hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxCherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home
"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A0 -
Nice one, Budgie :T
I think it sums this madhouse up quite nicely
And I second this bit:budget_babe wrote: »you are such a great bunch and I feel lucky to know you :A
@ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7"NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"0 -
Number 12 for me tonight please. Made up with cold all week and getting worse the last 2 days, nice!final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333Proud to be Dealing With my DebtDFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 1550
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Oh dear, Fedupandsparkles, I hope haven't passed on my bear flu

Stay wrapped up warm & look after yourself@ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7"NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"0 -
Number 8 for me tonight please GG.0
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Good evening
Been lurking all evening and now time to head to bed. Have been giving BF lesson on cash back sites over Skype.
Anyway I still can't seem to shake off this tiredness. Yawns. I don't know how people working full time and having kids manage to keep all their stuff sorted when I have ample amount of time and get behind with everything. Tomorrow please can I have kick bottom if I am not tackling my to do list.
However it is now 25 for me please DD (and today is exactly 6 months from when I first time met with BF :smileyhea)"Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."
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Evening folks, better late than never!
HB - wow, taking on the Jan scoring = respect! :T
Now this is a bit sad, but I'm really looking forward to Jan on here. Joined in Jan this year so that'll be my 1 year anniversay of being part of this great group of folks and also wondering if a few of the familiar faces from back then (:hello: to The Rugby Coach if you're lurking!) will be back to do an AF month post-festivities.
Was wondering who I'm passing the scoring baton to for December? Can't remember if anyone's offered yet. It'll be an odd month as I guess a lot of us will be staying with rellies (sp?) and might not have the usual internet access/privacy to post.
Anyway, withough further ado...the scores on tonight's doors are:
November scores – 25th November
40somethingmum: Target 30 / Actual 4 - any update 40SM? Hope you're well
69chick: Target 20 / Actual 6 - any news 69chick? Thinking of you
115k: Target 10 / Actual 6 - woo hoo! :T
Angie: Target 30 / Actual 22 - great score Angie
BHB: no target - hope you're ok BHB? Thinking of you.
Budgie: Target 15 / Actual 11 - not far to go Budgie, keep your pecker up
Changing Ways: Target 30 / Actual 24 - sterling effort :T
Clarabell13: Target 30 / Actual - hey Clara, hope you're ok?
Different Corner: Target 29 / Actual 14 - yay!
Dreamonsu: Target 16 /Actual 14 - very nearly there!
Fay: Target 30 / Actual 23 - v v impressive m'dear :T
Fedupski: Target 20 / Actual 12 - nice one, sparkly
Honeybear: Target 11 / Actual 9 - c'mon HB, you can do it!
Icelandic Maiden: Target 30 / Actual 24 - amazing commitment :T
Jo: Target 30 / Actual 24 - what can I say? Inspirational! :T
Kaleoma: Target 12 / Actual - any news Kaleoma? Hope you're ok.
Lurkio: Target 10 / Actual 8 - almost there!
Maman: Target 10 / Actual 12 - beaten target and still going strong :j
Mari: Target 15 / Actual 12 - almost there!
Marru: Target 30 / Actual 24 - great results from my co-scorer! :T
MollyP: Target 30 / Actual 19 - c'mon, we know it's higher than that!
MrsDee: Target 28 / Actual 24 - fantastic score! :T
MrsJC: no target / Actual 2 - any update MrsJC?
Nettie: Target 15 / Actual 6 - any news to report in Nettie?
Priceisright: Target 25 / Actual 18 - yay! :T
Shaggy: Target 17 / Actual 16 - very very close now!
SnowyM: Target 30 / Actual 20 - fantastic achievement! :T
Suweb5: Target 12 / Actual 9 - nice one Su!
Toby3000: Target 25 / Actual - any news Toby? Hope you're doing well.
Wanna Bee Free: Target 12 / Actual 8 - woo hoo!
Winebox: no target - hope you're ok WB?
Yellowmonkey: Target 25 / Actual 12 - yay YM!
Until tomorrow...
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BB love the poem!!
Glasgow girl amazing to read such lovely messages on the final stretch
Just a suggestion thinking about the scoring for December. How about in December we just account for ourselves and post as usual - the thread was like this before (just a thought ) I think GG's hit it on the head - for Dec its a tricky month for many reasons - many of those include limited internet access??
What do folks think - takes the pressure off a bit from a scoring point of view - and those who want to post AFD's can take their own scores....?
Don't think it will stop the posting - more likely we'll all keep shouting out our lovey AFD's ...........................:)
Its just an idea....................................................xxTotal debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
:money:Sleeves up folks.:money:0 -
1 more for me please gg
Will pop back later to catch up with you all. Spent a bit of time reading the bank reclaim charges thread today but decided not to read anymore as it was starting to wind me up.
There are certainly some self righteous people about :rolleyes:0
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