Wife says she loves me BUT... Pt 2

andru

I'm sorry for having the other thread removed but at the time i thought that i could persued her not to leave but now i realise you cannot stop anyone from doing what they want to.I have now grown a pair as i was rightly told to in my original thread even tho i still get my down days.

Now i feel i'm not going to waffle on like i did prevously.I do have a few friends out there and they give great support.The reason i am back now is to ask just a few questions.

When i met my wife she lived in a housing association house with 3 kids (The 3 Kids) which i now consider my own.They are now 17,15 and 12.
I had owned my own home for about 10 then.I rented out my house and lived with her and the boys for about 2 yrs then asked her to move into my house which we did in Dec 2001.

My question is now,as to protect myself,what claim will she have on the property or what ever as it is in my name solely.We have credit cards and a loan to the value of about £5000 al in my name as well also 2 cars which are both in my name.IF she did move out and it was over how would all this affect us.

Thanks

jamesey07

andru i wrote to you on the other thread and said that even before u knew that it was another man why she was behaving like this, i wanna ask you though why where u still trying to persued her not to leave when u knew what she is really like as a person? it's giving her a green light that u can be treated this way and that you would still have her back if she came crawling back to you which i guess she will once her fling burns out, i hope then u have the balls to tell her where to go instead of letting her back in, as of the debt i think because it's all in your name that it's up to you to pay for it, i'm not sure what claim she would have on the property but i'm sure it'd be sickning if she was able to get 50% r even less when it's not her house,