Mon 7th Sept-daily chat...where are you all??

sallyx

Yeah Beanie she had a lovely morning and can't wait to go tomorrow

Ive just been trying to sort out flipping courses and phoned up about that access to higher education course and its everyday for like 3 hours..how impractical. The foundation degree that I really want to do perfect hours mon and wed I need to have 1 years experience. Am completely confused on which way to go, what to do ahhhhhhh

sallyx

Sammy glad your meeting went well

Ames

Just typed a reply and lost it.

Been to the dentist, why are they always shocked at the thought of doing a small filling without anaesthetic? Had to have it with the big one though, I asked for it without adrenaline hoping that it wouldn't make me ill, but it's starting to hit now, so I'll be out for a couple of days.

Had ex on at me all afternoon- I've got my priorities wrong, I'm not making enough of an effort, I'll only be judged on results and so far I'm failing. Then he came back to do some tidying and cooking and had a go at me for all the washing up, saying that it's just lazyness. I've had enough, I'm going to sort out a cleaner. Does anyone know if they'll be able to work around the mess and just do what they can get to? Then I can gradually work on the tidying and sorting out.

sallyx

can't see why not Ames..especially if you explain your situation. Im sure you can just say id like you to do x, y, z and they will

sallyx

Im having a good day...
1) ive just sold an old push chair for £50 - thank you very much
2) Egg have agreed a F&F, not what I offered but still £500 off the remaining balance Happy Happy Smiley

(Land_of)_Maz

well done sal -

and ames - he is a !!!!!!. does he still get carers allowance for you? you'd do better to spend it on a cleaner hun... you're perfectly capable of taking care of your own needs in the right environment... and a clean, tidy flat would let you concentrate on yourself without getting bogged down in the drudge...

he should just eff off imho..... sorry if i'm speaking outta turn. i wish i was nearer so i could come and help you get sorted out once and for all... and then it would be manageable for you.

sallyx

I agree with what maz said Ames...you can do it on you own, he's just trying to control you

becky_rtw

I love cleaning Ames - where abouts in Leeds are you? I could pop and do an hour or two on Sat in exchange for tea and biccies

Gemmzie

I got it Don't mention on facebook though.

Only negative side is that I'm sick :rolleyes: Got tonsillitis - bummer

Ames

I'm in Little London Becky, although to be honest an hour or two wouldn't make much difference! If you want to come though we can get as much done as we can, and tea and biccies will def be provided! Thank you so much for your offer.

The problem is I'm not coping on my own. Mentally and emotionally I'm so much better, but physically I'm just getting worse, and have been doing for a while. I thought I'd just have to cope for a couple of months max till social services offered some help, but that's not happened and it looks like it wont for a while, if at all. So I need to come up with a backup plan, but can't think of one! Paper plates and a cleaner will help with a chunk of it though.