Weekly Flylady Thread 7th September 2009

froddington

fedupandskint wrote: »

I am working my way through a bottle of white - I think my OH is up to something and is lining someone else up and has spent the weekend with them after he told me last weekend that our relationship was false and over

I can feel it in my gut - I know I am right, I can feel the truth vibes being strong and correct

11 and a half years down the drain again, all my changes to suit him and now left with nothing again after he kept it all last time 2yrs ago

Huge, huge hugs for you xx

tootifruities

stars done to here!

Of by any chance you have an extra star please dont tell me!!! I lost the place when the phone rang!
If I have missed you then please shout at me!!!!
toots xx

Quillion

fedupandskint wrote: »

I am working my way through a bottle of white - I think my OH is up to something and is lining someone else up and has spent the weekend with them after he told me last weekend that our relationship was false and over

I can feel it in my gut - I know I am right, I can feel the truth vibes being strong and correct

11 and a half years down the drain again, all my changes to suit him and now left with nothing again after he kept it all last time 2yrs ago

Oh fedup hugs hun. Is there anything we can do for you babes ??

rosepink1984

achtunglady wrote: »

Hi, was in a great mood until i went to get my mobile phone from my bag, i cannot find it at all, have tried ringing it to see if i can locate it in the house but it goes to answerphone. The last time i had it was yesterday afternoon in the library, i got a text was from someone i didnt recognise, so i left it and carried on doing what i was doing. A small boy was sitting next to me, intently interested in what i was doing on screen ( cutting and pasting jungle animals for sons art project), had my bag on my lap, turned to give son the printouts and went home. Also missing is my usb key which i used in the library, which i distinctly remembered putting in my bag, its bright green so i know i didnt leave it behind, i'm racking my brains trying to remember where they are?
I dont want to contact the phone company yet in case it turns up at home, ive retraced my steps from when i got in but no joy

Probably a good idea to check with the library in case small boy's mum has handed it in! i don't mean he stole it, but he might have picked it up with out thinking to look at it. Or someone else might have found it and handed it in there.

zara*elise wrote: »

Oh ladies, I've lost this week in a sea of endless errands! Will promise to *try* to catch up next week. I've got myself a home diary so everything I need is making its way in there. App is next week so I need to keep busy until then.

xxxxx

I've got a home diary, it's brilliant, I put in when I'm going to do flying and any jobs I have to do that day and when I'm going to do them. Lists are fine but I look at them and think "I'll do that later" and then never do it. This way I have to do things are certain times and it's brill. I've been much more productive in the last few weeks since I've had it.

Princess_Jane wrote: »

I knew he owed this person money, but they rang me angry because he hasn't paid them back.

They are a bit of a bully and tried shouting and kicking off at me, but I knock on the door of nastier people for a living, so I just told them where to get off then made a statement to my friend, a solicitor, to be kept safe incase anything happens.

I've kicked off with my fella and he was really sorry. But I don't see why I should contribute towards paying his debt off. I worked my backside off for two years to pay off nearly £10k of my own debt.

I've helped him claim bank charges back and am helping him look into a debt management order, but when he owes someone personally money and there is no written agreement, it's a different story.

I moneysave like mad around the house and work two jobs to keep us afloat - he needs to get out and work his backside off..not that he doesn't already, but he is self-employed, has a lot of overheads and is prone to taking the ostrich approach to debt.

I can totally see where you are coming from - you've worked really hard to pay off all your debts already and have done a wonderful job and it's time for him to start pulling his weight financially. Well done on helping him with the bank charges and dmo, thats a good start. He needs to realise that you can't do it all, he has to take responsibility for his debts.

Hugs Toots

Hope your interview goes well Quillion

Hugs Pigpen

Big hugs Fedup, hope you are ok

thifty

hugs to (((fedup)))
Does anyone know a Mo spikey spikeman on facebook? They have sent me a friend request, I asked which flylady they were as we have 11 friends in common and they didnt know what I meant.

Quillion

Girls check ou the fb thread for the Derbyshire meet Everyone welcome. xx

tootifruities

huge hugs fedup - dont mean to be a party pooper but the wine wont help tomorrow angel - you are strong and will get through this and you deserve MUCH BETTER than this - dont do things for him or any other OH do it for you - you are the most important person in your life.
keep posting and venting - it will help to get it all out.
toots xx

michbright

tootifruities wrote: »

stars done to here!

Of by any chance you have an extra star please dont tell me!!! I lost the place when the phone rang!
If I have missed you then please shout at me!!!!
toots xx

Please update my stars! I did Level 1 Monday - Thursday (although didn't update on Thursday), before falling off the wagon on Friday .

Thanks!

rosepink1984

thifty wrote: »

hugs to (((fedup)))
Does anyone know a Mo spikey spikeman on facebook? They have sent me a friend request, I asked which flylady they were as we have 11 friends in common and they didnt know what I meant.

I had them send me a friend request but I just ignored them as I didn't know who they are

tootifruities

michbright sorry honey you only get a star when you have done level 1, 2 and 3.
But dont be disheartened as you have made a great start and next week these rooms will be easier. By completing level 1 everyday you have done better than some of us who have been here yonks so be very proud of your achievements, I look forward to giving you your first star - this week maybe?
toots xx