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Split up with Partner and want him to buy me out of our joint mortgage

Hi

I split with my partner last summer. I was the one to move out and would now like him to buy me out of our joint mortgage as he wants to stay in the house. He says he has been in touch with the mortgage company to get me taken off it and they won't allow it as his income (on paper) would not cover the repayments. I don't want to split 50:50 as we would have to sell the house and would potentially be at a loss due to the current climate. Can anyone advise me on the legalities of asking him to buy me out? I don't want much but I refuse to walk away empty handed.

Thanks

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  • david29dpo
    david29dpo Posts: 3,971 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    If the lender wont remove you from the loan, for good, reason, thats it. He is under no obligation to buy you out or you he.
  • keith969
    keith969 Posts: 1,575 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    If selling the house would result in a loss, then what makes you think you are going to walk away with anything at all?

    Quite the opposite, if you have a joint mortgage you have joint responsibilities, and if the house is currently worth less than the mortgage then you would have to pay him to buy yourself out.
    For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple and wrong.
  • If it's in neg equity, then you would have to pay HIM to be free of it...
  • Thanks for your advice. This situation is really confusing for me.
  • CLAPTON
    CLAPTON Posts: 41,865 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    what is the house's value
    what is the mortgage
    how much deposit was paid
  • david29dpo
    david29dpo Posts: 3,971 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    egux478 wrote: »
    Thanks for your advice. This situation is really confusing for me.

    Nothing confusing about it. If he cant or wont buy you out then you keep the house or sell.
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