stop the world i want to get off

tina68

love these chat rooms but need some goooood advice
basically out of work few weeks, debts mounting up letters through the door dmp done but being ignored by creditors..i am renting from H/A and wanted a move on medical reasons..Dr sent 2 letters, letters sent from Womens aid and a councilor i have to see on a weekly basis...letter through the door says i am 55th on the waiting list and 3 medical points awarded. if i wasn't suicidal b4 i am now...i tried to make a new life for my son and i but it's not going to plan.. i'm sitting here crying my eyes out feeling like i need a drink its a long story..also got a letter from bank to call them immediatley but i don't think i can cope and a letter from DCA saying they are going to start court proceedings

carly

"HUGS" sorry things are so wretched for you at the moment. It sometimes feels like you are alone and no one can help but usually it isnt so. I would reccomend a trip or call to the CAB as they will often intercede on your behalf with organisations which are making life difficult for you. I am sure some one will come along soon who will be able to give you more practical advice.

Fran

Have you applied to other Housing Associations in your area? Are you on the council list?

If it's really desperate what about private rented?

Yes it's good advice to get help with CAB because at least they can look at your situation objectively. They can also tell you of any other housing options in your area if you don't know already.

tina68

Fran wrote:

Have you applied to other Housing Associations in your area? Are you on the council list?

If it's really desperate what about private rented?

Yes it's good advice to get help with CAB because at least they can look at your situation objectively. They can also tell you of any other housing options in your area if you don't know already.

Thanx Fran
if i call bank and tell them i have an appointment with cab will they wait do you think. i sent them an soa weeks ago and all i get back is statements asking for the full amount,
Tina x

tina68

also i am with other housing but their lists are just as long
Tina x

Fran

tina68 wrote:

Thanx Fran
if i call bank and tell them i have an appointment with cab

Yes that's a good idea. Tell them CAB will be dealing with it on your behalf from now on... but only if you know that your local CAB does do debt because some might not have advisors and can only offer self help.

tina68

will phone 2day and find out
Tina x