Weekly Flylady Thread 17th August 2009

xx_Jo_xx

Im calm enough to tell you now whats happened:

Ex OH has been texting me constantly, every day, telling me he misses me, hes sorry, am I ok for money, can I help you out? Blah blah etc etc. I have not seen him or accepted any help from him (thanks to you flyladies!)

He went to visit his sisters supposedly and has been away about 3 weeks now - texting me the whole time.

Well, I found out - he isnt at his sisters at all.... guess where he is??

I will give you all a guess..... Go on, have a go..... Lets see if any one else gets it!!

fedupandskint

With a new GF? Wanting to play one off against the other without either of you knowing for his own gain?

helen_jelly

What she said /\ /\ /\ /\ /\ /\

Helen x

pigpen

jo.. there are two magic words that i find are extremely useful in such circumstances.. the second being 'OFF' I am certain you can guess what the first is! i would text those 2 simple very functional words to XOH and tell him right where he can get off.. cheeky git.. sometimes I REALLY hate men.. why are they so horribble? .. big hugs hun.. hope you can get him off your back..

Decluttered food.. I now have 5 homemade dinners in the freezer for Jacob.. what are the bets that I end up with the empty tubs back here to fill up for him again?

rosepink1984

Hugs Jo, hope you are ok. He sounds like a [Rosepink’s word for an idiot] and I’m really glad you can see through him and know what he’s really like

Hi Jenny! Nice to see you! Redundancy and a written off car are a big deal, so don’t worry about moaning about it. It’s a tough and worrying thing to have to cope with

Hugs Johanne

Well done Miss A for making the lasagne! I can’t even do that!

Hugs Frodders

Orkney I’m so glad you found your photos! What a relief for you

Big hugs Helen and family, hope tomorrow goes well

Hugs Elly

1 Step, really sorry to see you go, please try and post even if you can’t read the thread. Hope things get better for you

I've done really well today, am quite proud of myself! Have done washing up and cooked dinner all by myself which I haven't done in ages as I haven't felt up to cooking. Very pleased! And dinner only cost a grand total of £3.40 for the two of us! LOL! We had mash (free pots from FIL), fish cakes (4 for £2), salad (£1.40) and DH had corn on the cob which was also free! Very :money:

I'm really looking forward to tomorrow as I have a chill out morning planned - got a dvd I want to watch and am going to potter about doing the LR floor while I'm watching it.

I've also started th WM and tidied up the kitchen floor a bit

pigpen

Tuesdays list is up

bonsibabe

Many thanks oh illustrious leader!!!

bonsibabe

Oh carp, tomorrow just has to be the one that I hate the most lolololol, although I have done some of the bits already! Right off to see if I can get more of tomorrow's list done now!!!

Tuesday Twinkles ~ Kitchen and dining area
Level One
Declutter and wipe worksurfaces
[STRIKE]Sweep and mop the floor
[/STRIKE]Level Two
Scrub the sink clean and polish up those taps.. attack with a toothbrush to remove those grotty bits
Clear and clean window sills
[STRIKE]Wipe the table, replace cloth if needed
[/STRIKE]Level Three
Wipe units, kickboards and appliances
Clean the oven and hob
degunge the fridge
Extras

1. Wipe the back door.. inside and out
2. Clean a small appliance.. defuzz the kettle, decrumb the toaster etc
3. Scrub out the grill pan
4. [STRIKE]Clean light fittings/lamps [/STRIKE]

carlsberggal

TOOTS when you have a mo a STAR FOR today please, now don't go swooning in a faint!! LOL!!! To be honest did most of it yesterday, just needed tittivating today.

DH been home all day - he's done ALL the ironing, made my lunch - sneaked out for 20 mins at work and made tea. Cleaned his car inside and put, done a load of washing, hung it out and brought it in. Cut back the LONG beech hedge aswell.

Just sat waiting for DS to call in - so HAPPyyhe's home as he WILL be going to Afghanistan, training in September, when offically over there is up to the imcompetent army.

For all of those who think there problems arn't like anyone elses and think should shut up - THEY ARE BIG PROBLEMS TO YOU!! We are a supportive bunch, a problem shared is a problem halved as they say, don't feel you can't say anything on here

Right rant over, love/hugs/drinks all round to whoever who needs xx

Mudbath

Big hugs for elly, one step and jo xxxxx

My HHC at 2pm resulted in nothing being ticked off my list....Buuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttt!!!!!

I;

- mowed the grass
- strimmed
- pruned two 15 foot trees
- washed and dried ds's bed stuff
- washed and dried dd's bed stuff
- did another load of washing
- emailed a photo I had to email
- bought a new strimmer reel from b&q
- took son to sports class
- made tea
- made phone call
- sent another email
- fed dogs

And now it's 9 o'clock and i'm ready for bed and no list has been completed! Ooops!:rotfl:xx