Its the Weekend 15th/16th Aug *Daily Chat*

sammy115

Spud - you want me to look in my local school skirt shop...

Snaggles

Sammy - yes, we've chatted online most evenings, often till 2am, 3am, etc, so we do get on well, it's just not enough.

I mentioned to him a couple of times last week that I didn't have the kids most nights this week, so if he fancied a dvd and a drink it would be nice to see him. He said he would see what nights he had the kids, training etc and let me know.

He hadn't mentioned it, and sent me a message today asking if he could drop my phone charger off on Tuesday lunchtime if he pops out from work - took that to mean he wouldn't be coming round for the evening this week, but mentioned it again anyway, only to get the same answer as before, but with the beginnings of excuses of having the kids more than usual during the holidays and having other 'sh*te' to sort out this week.

So I told him the offer would stay open but I wouldn't ask again because, frankly, I'd asked him 3 times and I was starting to feel like I was begging/pestering. He said 'I don't mean to make you feel like that, this week is just a busy one but maybe next week'.

No definite arrangement, just a 'maybe', same as always, and to be honest, I'm sick of waiting and hoping, and am not prepared to continue doing it.

:mad:

Gemmzie

Snags, that sounds so much like the guy I was seeing earlier in the year, but as He's Just Not That Into You tells us - if they want to see us they will. (Which I totally had proved to me this week! On both sides of the argument.)

sammy115

Snaggles wrote: »

Sammy - yes, we've chatted online most evenings, often till 2am, 3am, etc, so we do get on well, it's just not enough.

I mentioned to him a couple of times last week that I didn't have the kids most nights this week, so if he fancied a dvd and a drink it would be nice to see him. He said he would see what nights he had the kids, training etc and let me know.

He hadn't mentioned it, and sent me a message today asking if he could drop my phone charger off on Tuesday lunchtime if he pops out from work - took that to mean he wouldn't be coming round for the evening this week, but mentioned it again anyway, only to get the same answer as before, but with the beginnings of excuses of having the kids more than usual during the holidays and having other 'sh*te' to sort out this week.

So I told him the offer would stay open but I wouldn't ask again because, frankly, I'd asked him 3 times and I was starting to feel like I was begging/pestering. He said 'I don't mean to make you feel like that, this week is just a busy one but maybe next week'.

No definite arrangement, just a 'maybe', same as always, and to be honest, I'm sick of waiting and hoping, and am not prepared to continue doing it.

:mad:

It does sound like your on different pages of the book Snags.....move on before you get even more hurt.......:grouphug:

bookseller1980

Hello before you all disappear. Catching up

(Land_of)_Maz

evening all - erin has gone out... it's me, you and a chicken korma folks....

rock n roll!

Snags - think you've done the right thing for what it's worth......

sammy115

and me..............

Burlesque_Babe

me also..........although I know that making that 'leap' to do it is so hard.

Pooky

Snaggs - does sound like you're both singing from different sheets - onwards and upwards!

I copped the sun, well and truely today at the beach.....I've got a errrmmm...healthy? glow

Just made a yummy salsa from my home grown toms with peppers, chilli, onion and balsamic and had it on crusty garlic toasted bread.....yummeroony.

bookseller1980

sammy115 wrote: »

You talk like my OH who put himself on the scrap heap last year with no hope of employment.....18 months later he is working himself into an early grave with work being so busy....

If YOU don't believe in yourself NO ONE ELSE WILL!!


You are an educated, respected, intelligent woman who has experience in spades.......do something about it...

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Blimey. Was that aimed at me?