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My debt horror

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  • Only fruit machines I'll have a look at that.

    What happens if a creditor eg a payday loan company rejects my plan

    my poundstillpayday and payday express debts are in dispute as it contains illegal charges

    wonga debt is not, yet, in dispute but they have rinsed £120 from my debit card without my permission my bank won't investigate so I am getting on board the OFT

    the credit card debt does include a few bad charges
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Can you cancel the debit card and request a new one so wonga can't just help themselves?

    Have you followed Martin's guide for reclaiming charges?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • I can do self exclusion but don't want a criminal record if I go back in there

    I needto stop it only if for a few weeks but need to know how
  • WASHER
    WASHER Posts: 1,347 Forumite
    Are you saying you gamble online using the fruit machines? If so, you need to block all the gambling sites, read the thread I posted the link too, i am sure their is mention of how to block gambling sites from your computer.
  • I did cancel it, but they only marked it down as damaged but forgot to tell me the care us still active for 30 days
  • I only gamble at a shop in the town
  • as with charges, I am but had no reply to date poundstillpayday is taking it to the dca at the weekend called clarity credit management who I hear are the best dca on the planet
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I can do self exclusion but don't want a criminal record if I go back in there

    I needto stop it only if for a few weeks but need to know how

    Talk to the people on the gambling support thread for advice from others who know and understand the compulsion to gamble!
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    I'm going to be a bit brutal here. The people in the shop probably aren't your friends, your relationship with them is like a heroin addict to their dealer. Limiting to £40 a day is £14600 a year, can you afford that? I doubt it. I'm a bit biased, my ex is a gambling addict. I was shocked when he said hi to someone as we were going into asda and it turned out it wasn't a friend, it was someone who worked in the bookies, he was so bad he knew the staff well! He ended up with a criminal record when he stole thousands from his employer, it really is a slippery slope. And one of his biggest weaknesses is fruit machines.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Just read one of your posts fully, I don't think you'll get a criminal record if you go back in after self excluding, they'll just refuse to serve you.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
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